I had all of my children before I was 21. Not a great idea but not the end of the world either. When you choose to look at your life and descide to do more (starting with carring your baby to term ) you will realize you can do anything! Life has just begun. Do what is right NOW and will be easier to do what is right later. The Lord says he has plans for us for good and not to harm you but to give you a future and a hope. I found that hope at 16 with my first pregnancy and continued with the third. I was married with the other two but was alone and 16 with my daughter. It will get easier. Begin to at least think about second verginity. I have heard how it can really bless you and your partner. love dobbiemom