coo19

Hi, I just want to let you know that I to believe you are doing the best thing. I was in a relationship from the age of 14 till I was 23. He cheated all the time and abused me physically and emotionally. At 19 we were engaged and in October of 2003 when I was 23 we were supposed to get married but in March 2003 I woke up one day and thought "what am I doing, this is a BIG mistake" I took off and never thought about it twice. I gave up my house, my pets, my friends and just about everything else I owned just to get out and it was worth it. If I had to do it again I would in a heart beat. We are now friends and I hope the best for him but there is not one day that goes by that I regret this. When I was 19 he was the love of my life, I thought I couldn’t live without him but guess what 4 years later I realized that I had been lying to myself and I did what was best for me. That’s what you need to do but you also have children so think about them and what’s best. they to are being hurt by the situation you are in. Don’t put yourself or your children through another minute of this. he’s not worth it and if he would turn his back on his own children then that shold tell you what kind of person he really is. You will get back on your feet and when you do you will be so happy he is gone and you will find the love of your life when are aren’t really looking for him. Any man that cheats never loved you. Keep your head up, be a strong woman cause all of us are and stand your ground. I wouldn’t give him the time of day if he begged for it either. You will be fine, women are the strongest creatures on earth, we have to be. I’m here if you want to talk. Be strongfor yourself and you precious babies, you’ll be fine!;)