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Hi ccopp66
Glad u happy, & chose to keep ur little girl. Hope she brings u all the joy ur heart desires…
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Regards
DebbieHey Jona
Firstly, it must have been very difficult to have this baby to begin with.
Secondly no one can really tell u what to do, u need to make a decision for yourself, and u need to be able to live with the consequences of ur decision. If u really feel that u cannot love this child, perhaps letting someone else look after him is not such a bad idea. Looking at an innocent child and being unwilling & unable to love him & look after him, is only going to hurt him. @4 he is able to understand what is going on. Kids suprose u, by remembering things that have already slipped ur mind. I personally in this situation would consider an open adoption, whereas someone else can offer him the love & support he needs, and u can still be in his life however often as u are comfortable with, perhaps one day u can sit down and discuss with him what has happened. But don’t hurt or abandon him… his a little blessing from God, u may not see that now, given the circumstances, but maybe he can be someone elses happiness???
Sorry, hope this helps… Life is really difficult, and i hope u find a solution that fits u best!
*hugs*
DebHey love
It’s really odd how men think u can just toss the baby, and life will go on. I was pressured into abortion by my ex. I never really gave it much thought at the time, and presumed that things would be ok, as he’d promised. But, as time went by, i couldn’t look at him, i couldn’t sleep in the same room as him, i started to resent him for forcing me to lay my body down and have an innocent baby “removed”! Nothing can take that guilt & hurt away. I think back on how things could & would have been & know that keeping my baby would have been a better option.No matter how difficult it gets, God always provides for his children!!!
Hope this helps
*Hugs*
Deb
