You know, we all think we love them but to be honest it sounds as though you could do without. walk away now and pick up the pieces. you are stronger than you think. There are good men and women out there who will treat you right, as by the sounds of it he’s a bastard and you’re probably used to his kind. I was too until i met my ex, and he made me realise that actually i’m worth way more than anyone has ever said, and you are too. If you walk away then you are being the strong one. Look at getting some legal advice from either friends or a firm or legal-aid. They will be able to help you. Kia Kaha: be strong.