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    Anonymous

      I read your story, and I’m very sorry to hear that the person who got you pregnant won’t be there for you. I am also pregnant, and I am 16 (about to be 17). It’s going to be hard, but I know that we both can do it. And you know, there are other options, like adoption. *Abortion is not an option… at least to me. I know that if you get one, you will regret it… most people do.* Anyway.

      Eventually, you will realize *if you choose to keep the baby* that it is the biggest blessing in your life, and it may be hard at first… but eventually… it will get better. I promise.

      Believe me, everything you have coming, I also have coming.

      Later love,

      I wish you the best of luck.

      Ali

      #11406
      Anonymous

        I was 16 years old when I found out I was pregnant and 17 when I gave birth. My son is now 13 years old and I am turing 31 this year. Being a young single parent is about the hardest thing I have ever done but I would not change it for the world. I worked two jobs and had tons of help from my family. I went to school all day and then went to work at night. My sons father was in and out of our lives never really helped with anything. 13 years later I am still going back and forth to court for support. I am now married and I actually own my own home and have a great job. I never thought that would happen but I also never gave up. I just read about the girl who is 13 and pregnant, Honey, YOU MUST TELL YOUR PARENTS!!! You CAN NOT do this on your own. I have a 13 year old child and there is no way I would expect my son to handle a situation like this with out my help. I am not saying you are not a smart girl but at your age your parents know alot more things then you do, they have been through alot more things and they will be able to help you. It is the worst thing in the world to have to gain the courage to tell them that their 13 year old daughter is going to have a baby but you need to do it. Write them a letter and ask for them to take some time to talk it over then after they get their minds clear you need their help. They will not turn against you if you ask them for help. You can not do this alone. I belive everything happens for a reason, I am unable to have anymore children do to medical problems(PCOS) and I am greatful now that I have my son. I have done fertility with my husband and nothing has worked. I would love to have another child but it is not going to happen. Please think about all your options and talk to your parents you need them more now then ever before! Good Luck to you!

        #11409
        Anonymous

          hey girl i wish you the best best of luck with ur babies… i hope everything goes good… i just had a baby girl on may 3rd. and guess wut i’m only 15 gurl god bless you and i know you will love your babies

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