So yah…. AFTER ALLLL THIS….MY beautiful fiancé decides he wants to wait till we get married to have a baby after all…
Yeah…and I’m a little peed off cos that’s what I wanted to begin with and he didn’t want that. He wanted to have a baby NOW NOW NOW! lol! But now he’s decided what I wanted was best. But I can’t say that I’m entirely happy……you see I got around to the idea of our baby coming soon and now it’s got to a point where I really really want to conceive and have a baby. It’s like someone has just called a halt to my dream… Am I bein selfish? spoiled? stupid? I don’t know…
Deep down, I know that it’s the right way to do things and that’s what I wanted all along. But I guess I just feel dumb because I was willing to change my ideals for him just like that and defend my choice to the hilt. And now HE’s the one telling ME how it should be. A part of me IS happy that we are doing things God’s way, but I can’t help but feel a little deflated……………sad even. I want to be a mommy so bad and the thought that it was gonna be happening so soon…the conception, the good news, the pregnancy…everything . And it seems that whatever we do, he makes the decisions I do the work whether it be emotionally, physically, or internet research-ally (lol). It seems my whole world surrounds his whim.
I don’t know, maybe it’s my own dramatic self making things more of a stress than what it is and I know he has his fair share…but it doesn’t feel like it… 🙁
Okay, I am 17, going to be 18 on November 22. I have an amazing boyfriend. He has been so great to me. So yeah, I’m prego and I have just been really stressed out lately.
I don’t really know how I’m going to tell my mom. My boyfriend’s whole side of the family knows. I have known him since I was a little girl. Like before I found out I was pregnant, he must of already knew because people at his school were askin him and he would always say yeah, she is. But my period came late and I haven’t had one for a month now. So I took a prego test and 30 seconds later, it came out positive like I was sooo happy, I mean having a kid with someone I have known for my whole life. I know he will make a great daddy because all he talks about is him wanting to have a kid with me and yeah. I am not 18 yet, he has been there for me forever ago. I don’t want him to ever leave me for anyone. His mom had asked us both at the same time how are you going to pay for all of this and I wanna get a job but after I turn 18 and stuff. Move out and be with him.
But all this has been is some Baby Mama Drama! I want to have a son.
I don’t know how to help her!!
We meet on the phone through a friend. She was 15 and I was 23. We both lived in different states. I was in a Christian college and she was in a Christian school… We talked for 2 hours every night for 6 months, then she invited me to go and visit her for Thanksgiving Day. I went there with her mom’s permission… I stayed in her sister’s apartment. She came over to spend the night with her too and we ended up… you know. I was a virgin, but I couldn’t tell if she was… In those 6 months that we talked, she had some problems and I help her out. And became so much closer. We never planned to do anything is just happen…
Then I came back to college and I went for the summer to visit her. We did it again, but this time, she got pregnant… I was scared. She just told me and decided with her mom to abort the baby… I was so scared but I wanted the baby… I felt sad but at the same time, her pastor and my pastor knew I was there visiting her and they told me to come back immediately or they would do something… I came…but we wanted to marry as soon as she got 18. I came home and we had a long distant relationship for 6 month. After that, she changed on me. It was different… I repented of all I did and wanted to marry her cuz I really love her and all we went through but now, I found out by letter that she was cheating anyway…
Now she is having a lot of problems. We don’t communicate anymore cuz it was forbidden for my pastor and her pastor but I know she is going for problems and she is living a married life if you know what I mean… She is only 16 now and really hard headed. She don’t understand but deep inside, she knows that the guys she’s dating now are just taking advantage … and she likes sex… I want something for preventing this because I know she’s still in time before is too late and get pregnant with some guy who don’t even care for her. I know that for sure. And we all know what’s the end of it…
I am praying for her but now, it seems she don’t want to listen to nobody… I don’t know how to help her… The only thing I know is soon she will get pregnant like her sisters… The last text she send me said that she would kill herself… because I told her that we had to stop communicating cuz she choose her path already with that other guy. d that life but I don’t know. I know she needs help. I can’t be there now I wish but I can’t. But I am really worried for her. I love her but I know she is being just stubborn but I know she will realize with time about now but it will be late cuz probably, she will end up pregnant again or even worst and I want to avoid it.
If it can be possible, somebody can talk to her anonymously without mentioning my name… I am desperate…
Life has been very hard for me because of the fact that I have been prego three times and each time, I miscarried.
I’m prego now, and I just want people to pray and bless me. I have been with my boyfriend for almost five years and we have been struggling with the fact that my body keeps rejecting the babies so I thought I couldn’t carry.
So just pray for me
Hi,
My partner and I have been trying for a baby for 11 months now. Anyway, let’s cut to the chase shall we. My periods are regular and my normal cycle lasts for approximately 31-32 days. My last period began on the 1st October and during this time, my partner and I had the usual sex routine. However, on the 28th of October, to my surprise, I got my period. I have experienced early periods before, but this time, my period only lasted 2-3 days and I didn’t lose a lot of blood, which is very strange as my periods are fairly heavy. I have also been experiencing pain in my breast and very tender nipples which stick out. I also am feeling a bit of nausea, but I’m not sure if this is down to nerves. I also have headaches.
I just wanted to know if anyone has experienced similar problems as I am stuck and don’t know what to do.
Thanks
I have a very complicated story, so i will just outline it.
I am 19 years old and I have 3 kids. I have a 3 year old boy who is a little monster, but I love him lots and wouldn’t change him for the world, he was born in September 2004, just after my 16th birthday. I have a little girl who was unfortunately still born in November 2006. My third is my bump on the way, who is due in March of next year.
My little boy and my little girl were conceived because of my stepdad abusing me. But I wasn’t having an abortion as they were my flesh and blood and had done no wrong. My bump was conceived out of a loving relationship, but he ran away when I told him I was pregnant.
To complicated things more, I have just started a degree in pediatrics nursing, so if I can anyone can. I was just determined to prove that teenage mums are not useless and that we can make something of our lives. As well as giving our kids what they need and the best futures possible.
So that’s a little bit bout me. Contact me if you want any more info or help.
