I have been having unprotected sex since May.
My period comes like clockwork every month on the 26th, but the last one was different. I was feeling sick, had sore breasts and nipples I took a test but it was negative. Then a day later, I started bleeding, that was June 23rd. 3 days early, which never happens. it was just light spotting and then I got a medium flow that was reddish brown and then got lighter but only lasted 3-4 days, which isn’t normal for me. Usually, my periods are extremely heavy and last 7-10 days but this one was different. On Tuesday, July 6th, I started spotting very little and then it stopped. I’ve also been nauseous and getting headaches. I took a test but it was negative again. I currently have a UTI and wondered if it is affecting my pregnancy test or could it be too early to tell?
If I am pregnant, I would only be about 4 weeks along… Any advice?
I am 16 years old. My boyfriend, he is 19 years old and we are expecting a baby.
My best friend is pregnant. She is due on Dec. 5th. So she has really been here for me, helping me out a lot. I dunno what I would do without her by my side… I haven’t told my parents or his parents yet. I think he is more excited about this baby than I am. He really wants a little girl. I am really scared. And I have no clue how to even tell my parents. I’m not really worried about his parents becuz they are going to support us no matter what. but I don’t even know how to tell my dad. My dad is going to be very disappointed.
What do I do?
I’m 19 and I have a beautiful 4-month-old baby and I have found out that I am pregnant again and I’m already 11 1/2 weeks.
My bf at first did not want our first child due to our futures and I made the decision to keep her. She is both of our worlds =] our everything. Well anyways, I went to the ER the other day for having pains and ended up getting An ultrasound and seeing the baby moving and everything. My bf wants me to get an abortion and there’s no other option in his eyes. I told him ok but deep down, I don’t want to do it and regret it… I’ve seen the heartbeat and I feel like I’ll be a murderer if I follow through. The hardest is I have a 4-month-old baby girl that I’m doin all I can to support her and don’t know if I can support another baby.
I don’t know what to do. =..[
For the past week, I’ve been constantly worrying if I’ve gotten pregnant.
My last period was less than 3 days and extremely light, and I haven’t started this month yet and it’s been 2 days. I’m fairly regular. I’m on birth control, and my boyfriend and I don’t use condoms because I have never had problems with the pill before now. I’ll be turning 17 in 16 days, and I’m scared out of my mind at the thought of raising a child at this age. My boyfriend is scared too, and has voiced that he isn’t ready to raise a child. He’s 19. But there is this part of me, that when I think about having a baby, I get excited and happy. I know if I am pregnant, I would never get an abortion. But I don’t think adoption is an option for me, either… I know that having a child is life-changing – I’ll have less free time, I’ll have to grow up a lot faster than I normally would, I’d have tenfold the responsibilities. But the thought of carrying a child in my womb for 9 months, 9 months! I would instantly bond, I have that extremely strong maternal instinct. Giving up a baby would just shoot me straight back into the depression I have worked so hard in my life to overcome. Along with that, if I was stupid enough to get myself into this situation, I believe that I need to take responsibility for my actions, even if it means giving up on a lot. I hate to admit it, but the thought of having a child, even at this age, makes me incredibly happy.
But I’m torn – if I am pregnant, should I keep the baby and take responsibility for my irresponsibility, risking my boyfriend and I’s relationship? Or do I give the baby up for adoption, giving him or her a chance at a wonderful life, risking my own happiness?
I’m 16, had sex the day after I stopped bleeding, and now the blood tests say yes…….. I don’t know what we’re gonna do about how to support our baby, but abortion is OUT OF THE QUESTION…… Btw, this was found out at 10 this morning… Morning sickness has been horrible, I throw up at a moment’s notice, my boobs hurt if you look at them wrong, have not told any parents, only mentioned it to my best friend and my stepcousin…
I’m not sure what to do, too early for boy/girl, have Serenity Alora for a girl… no clue about boy names, pls any advice/names would be adored
I got a phone call today from my cousin’s mom, she wanted to ask me about my past…particularly the past that involved my uncle living with us.
Her daughter has made allegations that he has done some inappropriate things and she had heard that there was a suspicion that he had done similar things to me… I have a faint memory of sitting in the bathroom sink, being given a bath by him. He and his friend were laughing and pointing at me and I felt so dirty and like something was not right… There were other things like noticing him watch me get dressed when I got a little older and I hated it when he tickled me, it just never felt comfortable… I have always had the thought and feeling in my subconscious that he had done something to me and I had always just known he had done it to my siblings too. I called my sister and asked her for the first time ever about what happened. We have NEVER talked about it but it was always an unspoken thing that we just knew… She confirmed it… He had done things to all of us… She had even told my parents when they were still together. She just remembered that my uncle no longer lived with us, yet years after my mom had left, my uncle lived with us again and was our main live-in baby sitter.
How could my dad, knowing what he did to us let him move in, rent free and watch us alone…? I am so numb and in shock right now. I have always felt and suspected the things that I now know happened, but to know it and not just think it makes me sick… If my parents had done the right thing, my cousin wouldn’t be going through what she is now. How many others are there? I forgive him for what he has done but it still breaks my heart that my childhood was so robbed and unprotected. I have been so self conscious of my body, I have always felt like I am not good enough, I have always felt like damaged goods. My husband has really helped me heal from other parts of my past that I was for sure about but now this, I am 27 and I now have to confront this issue in my mind and in my heart, it is raw and fresh like it all happened yesterday, that violating feeling, that abandoned and neglected feeling, that shattered, scared, lonely little girl who was not protected in her own home….
I can hardly get a tear out but I feel so sad and alone…….
