Im 19 and i have a beautiful 4 month old baby and i have found out that i am pregnant again and im already 11 1/2 weeks.My bf at first did not want our first child due to our futures and i made the decision to keep her.She is bot of our worlds=] our everything. Well anyways i went to the er the other day for having pains and ended up getting A ultrasound and seen the baby moving and everything .my bf wants me to get an abortionand theres no other opton in his eyes.i told him ok but deep down i dont want t do it and regret it….i seen the heartbeat and i feel like ill be a mrderer if i follo through.the hardest is i have a 4 month old baby girl that im doin all i can to support her and dont know if i can supprt another baby.i dont know what to do=..[
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Remember there are three options. Keep the baby, terminate the pregnancy, or give the baby up for adoption. None the options are going to be easy. And just because he says that you have to, that doesn't mean that you must. You really need to crunch the numbers and search inside of you and decide what will be best for you and your family. Whether you can support another child or not. Abortion is hard. You will always think about the what ifs and think about where you would be if you would have kept the child. But it also could be what is best for you and you family. But you should do it because it is what you want to do. If you do it because he told you that you have to it could end up ruining your relationship. Unfortunately no one can make this decision for you, just keep your options open and make sure that you know what you're doing before you make your decision. I wish you luck.