I’m nineteen and have been with my other half for three years. We split about three weeks ago after he told me I was holding him back and he missed his freedom and space. About 4 days ago, I discovered I was 2 months pregnant. A Huge shock to everyone.
The father is determined that I have an abortion and has told me that if I did, he would help me through it. My mom and dad think that an abortion would definitely be for the best.
The only thing is I think I want to keep the baby. I’m willing to change my life and do what it takes, but the pressure everyone is putting me under is too much. I feel like keeping this child will tear my whole family apart and I will lose everyone I love. I have no idea what to do and I’m desperate to make my decision as soon as possible, before it gets any harder.
I was with a guy for about 2 months… We were basically living together and around the week of Christmas was when my baby was conceived… The guy and I broke up on Christmas day, having no idea about this baby… On Dec 27th, I was admitted into the hospital… The pregnancy tests came back negative and the doctors said I had a bacterial infection… I went home that day with antibiotics to take…
I remained having pains in my stomach after the antibiotics were over and I went to the doctor on January 14th to ask for painkillers… That was the day that I found out I was pregnant… My doctor was guessing I was about 2 weeks at the time, and that scared me because I didn’t want it to not have been my ex… I was admitted into the hospital 2 hours later… And they found out that on top of being FOUR weeks pregnant, I had PID… caused by bacterial infections, STDs, etc. and I was allergic to the medicines to cure it. I had 12 vials of blood pulled that night and two days later, all STD tests had came back negative… I was so relieved to had found out that, and that my baby HAD to have been my boyfriend’s, well my ex’s. My mother had been told by my doctor that I was pregnant… And after I was released from the hospital on Sunday, my mom informed me on Monday that i had to get an abortion or get out… This was the woman who I thought of as my best friend, and she was betraying me.. I’m now 6 weeks pregnant… The baby’s father is completely out of my life. I’m out of my mom’s house.. I’ve been admitted into the hospital a second time and the pains just continue to get worse… I do not like needles, the hospital scares me, and every time i turn around, I keep getting more sick, and not in the way of vomiting… I’m scared. I don’t want to kill my baby, but my abortion appointment is on Feb 6th… I do not know what to choose or what to think. I can’t do this on my own. I’m only a junior in high school… My father and his girlfriend have taken me in… She has a 12 year old daughter who I want to be able to be a great sister for…
Please help me. I am scared and confused. This baby is making me very unhealthy… and I’m losing all hope..
So I’ve been scrolling through the process I’m about to go through and I’m trying to get around it in my head what I’m about to do.
Tomorrow I will abort my child. I’m 9 weeks pregnant and 16 years young. I’ve never been more scared in my life. Today is Wednesday and I found out I was pregnant on Saturday. I’m amazed with the support I have had from my family and my boyfriend now even though it isn’t even his child. I cry every day because aborting goes against everything in my religion and everything I’ve ever really believed in.
I’m really scared and tomorrow, my mother or boyfriend cant come to the abortion.
so iv been scrolling through the process im about to go through and im trying to get around it in my head what im about to do. tomorrow i will abort my child im 9weeks pregnent and 16years young iv never been more scared in my life today is wednesday and i found out i was pregnent on saturday. im amazed with the suport i have had from my family and my boyfriend now even tho it isnt even his child. i cry everyday because aborting goes against everything in my religion and everything iv ever really believed in. im really scared and tomorrow my mother or boyfriend cant come to the abortion.
Actually, I am not a teenage mom, but I am a mother of two toddlers. I recently was watching a show on TV and I started to realize how difficult that must be.
I really don’t know how to help except to offer my friendship and support to anyone who might need it. I live in the Orlando area and I am 29 years old. After having my first baby at 26, I realized what a wonderful thing it is to have a baby- a little soul who will love you no matter what. Shortly after that, when my daughter was 7 months old, I got pregnant again. I wasn’t ready for that and it was very hard at first. It’s only now getting easier! And I am almost 30- so I can imagine what some of the younger moms must experience. I would like to just talk to anyone that might need another mom to talk to.
Being a mom can be awfully lonely sometimes too which is something someone never told me either!
Hello, I’m 17 years old and a senior in high school. I’m also 1 – 2 months pregnant.
The tests were negative, but I know the signs and symptoms. I told my boyfriend, the father of the child, and a couple of days later, he dumped me. He told my friend it was because he didn’t want a baby. Now I am on my own to raise it. I’m scared to death. I don’t know if I’ll be a good mother or even if I’ll be able to raise it right. I have thought about adoption, but I don’t know yet. I want to keep my baby, but how will I be able to raise it? I start college in August. I wonder if this means I will have to put my plans on hold. I also have decided that I don’t want the father to have any part in my child’s life. He still has a lot of growing up to do. The father is only 15 years old. So I have no clue what I’m in for.
I’m looking for any help or advice.
