Hi, and I turned 14 in November. I have had my period on a 28-day cycle for the past 4 months and was on birth control, but after having my period on the 26th till the 1st, and then having unprotected sex with my boyfriend on the 3rd and 5th.
Do you think it’s possible I might become pregnant?
I woke up this morning… And the first thought I had (more like a reminder) was, “You’re still pregnant.”
First, the happy thoughts set in: I’m gonna be a mom, I’m gonna be happy, My boyfriend and I are gonna be good parents. I can still go to college. We can do this.
Then, I think about my mom: She’s going to ridicule me. She won’t believe I can do this. She’ll blame me for everything, like always. She’s going to hurt me. My family will have nothing positive to say.
I still can’t tell her… How long am I gonna wait? I don’t know. I could never tell her anything. Even if I had a field trip at school, I had to gather strength for that. She just scares me…
I cry when I look in the mirror. I feel bad for myself. Look at her, she’s so lost in this world.
My best friend (who’s two months pregnant) tells me that in the end, the baby belongs to me and my boyfriend. Not my mom or my family. And that I shouldn’t let them stop me from being happy.
But it’s not just my life that will be affected, my mom and my siblings. My mom always said she always had to make changes because of me. Well, doesn’t that happen when you’re a parent? You have to make lifestyle changes, for better or for worse.
I just hope I can look back on this all this one day and say, “If I had to live it all over again, I wouldn’t wouldn’t change anything for the world.”
Hey, just a little bit about myself. I’m 16. My little boy is called Harry Lewis.
I’m a single mom and I had Harry just after my 15th Birthday. He is the best thing that’s ever happened to me. I have only recently broken up with his dad about 2 months ago after I found out about him cheating and things and the only way I’ve been able to get through it is with Harry.
When Harry was born, I was really ill. I thought I’d never love him, that he’d ruined my life, and that I wish I’d aborted him while I had the chance. His dad had left me for a while just after we’d slept together. I told him I might be pregnant, but I tested too early at 4 weeks and it said negative so we thought I was okay. At about 10 weeks, I started getting really tired and was taking days off school for massive headaches. It was a throwaway comment from my mom that made me think I could be pregnant. When it turned out that I was, I was terrified. I was 14. How was I meant to be a parent?
My boyfriend told me straight away that I was having an abortion. I told him to stuff it, It was my baby. Then he left me and that’s why I went ill. I refused to have an abortion because it was what he wanted. Then when he was born, I looked into his eyes and I fell in love with my little boy. To this day, I don’t know how I managed to be so upset about him. I wouldn’t change my little boy for the world.
I’m 16 now and Harry has just gone 18 months. Our lives have changed a lot. I want to be a midwife when I go to university, to help other mums have their babies. That may have to be put on hold though for the moment because I think I may be pregnant again and to be honest, I’m terrified. I’ve worked hard to get where I am now and I think another baby could ruin that. I’m two days late with this period and my last one wasn’t exactly normal either.
Abortion isn’t an option for me now as it wasn’t back when I had Harry, but I am terrified and to be honest, I’m glad I’ve found this site x
I am trying to potty train my son now. He is 18 months and I keep getting a lot of different opinions on it. Some people are telling me he is too young and others are yelling and saying he needs to be potty trained.
What to do??
Add me!
OK, so I’m nearly 12 weeks now and one of the guys is happy about all of this. He even wanted to see the belly is starting to get.
The other guy, well, he hasn’t said a word to me since I told him. Kinda sucks cos I like him. But face it, he only wanted me over after he had drinks and always got a girlfriend after he had me over so I dunno. I still like him, but the first guy talks to me and he is really sweet too. I’m waiting till this thing comes out to see whose it is.
I got told I might lose it if I get it done now
