Hi. I have had a confusing life since I got engaged on April 1st. It wouldn’t be that big of a deal, but I’m only 16 and my fiancé is 18 and it’s a long-distance relationship.

Well, Gabe (my fiancé) came and stayed a week with me over his spring break we instantly fell in love, and before he left that week, he had proposed on a dock on the lake. That was the first big change for me and my family. My mom’s side of the family and my mom and dad didn’t really mind, but my dad’s side of the family absolutely hated it! Anyway, he came back again like a week ago and that is when I lost my V-card… If you know what I mean… Anyway, I had never really kept track of my monthly because I didn’t have the need to, but now I wish I had. I started showing symptoms of pregnancy. The really bad one is being soooo tired! I have never been so tired in my life! After about two weeks of suspicion, I accidentally blurted it out to my mom. She took it well and I took a test and it was negative, but I still think it is too early to tell so I’m going to take another one in three weeks. Anyway, my mom told my dad and apparently he took it well also, but I haven’t talked to him about it yet. Gabe told his parents and they flipped! They started screaming at him and now I feel horrible!

Could I really be pregnant?!?! I don’t know what to do anymore and what’s worse? Gabe is going to a military thing in August for a year and he won’t see the baby IF  I’m pregnant until he/she is 6 months old! I really need someone to talk to! This is so scary!