Well, I’m 17, almost 18, and my bf is 16, and we have been talking about having a baby.

In a way, I want one, but in another way, I don’t cause I am scared that he says he does now, but once the baby gets here, he will change his mind cause he is younger than me. Even though I love him, and have wanted to have children forever! Don’t get me wrong. I love him with all my heart, but men fall out of love so easily.

I really just don’t know what to do. Cause I want a baby but idk if it’s the right thing to do right now. I really want a baby and if I do get pregnant and I have a girl, we’re naming her Moriah Marie. And if I have a boy, Daniel Sidney. I really want a baby. I have thought about it for almost a month. He even talked to his parents about it and they told us both to just sit down and talk about it. And everytime we do it makes me want one even more than before. They said they would support our decision whether we have one or decide to wait!

Another problem is that I have been sexually active before and he has not. I know that to guys losing their virginity isn’t that big of a deal, but to girls, it is. It’s like a part of you is gone and I just want him to be as ready for this as I am!