I am 17 years old. My Braylin Chase is due very soon, October 4th.
I can’t wait to hold him and love him. At least I know I’ll never have to worry about being alone again. He’ll be the one little man I know will always be there. FOB does not speak to me because he is still in love with me and will not do anything, but argue with me even when I try just talking about the baby. I’m not in love with him so I’m not gonna put myself through a lifetime of unhappiness because everyone THINKS that we should be together solely because it would be easier for us to raise Braylin. He hasn’t offered to help out one bit with his son except for the fact that he wants to see him some. That’s all he has interest in is seeing him. it takes more than that to be a father. I do have a boyfriend but I am terribly afraid he will leave me after Braylin gets here. But unfortunately, there’s no way for me to prevent myself from getting hurt because I won’t know the answer until Braylin gets here in October. My grandmother is the only person in my family who is helping support me and Braylin. I so terribly wish I were married and had a job so I could take care of and provide for my son, but I have no job and no income so I’m at a loss of what to do right now and it doesn’t help that no one in my town has accepted my application for a job. I can always try again after he gets here but I dunno if anything will have changed by then. I’ve applied everywhere available.
Well, this is my story.
Hey girls!! I’m 17. My husband is 20. We have been together for 4 years…
From the time I was 15, all I wanted was to be a mom. Doctors told me it was impossible… In Dec, I got pregnant. I lost my baby at week 3. It was bad and it hurt so I drank to help with the pain. In Feb, I stopped drinking because I missed my period. Well, I took the test and it said negative. Well on my brother’s birthday in March, I still had not had it. So I took 5 pregnancy tests. They all said yes. So I was scared that I would lose that baby too. I went to the doctor. Everything was good. The baby was growing and everything… Things got better for me till I was 4 months pregnant. My husband lost his job. My mom moved out… I felt alone… When I was 5 months along, he found another job… Then I was put on bed rest since I have a high-risk pregnancy. I am now 6 and a half months pregnant. My son is my everything… He will be born Dec 1. I have to have a c-section… I spend the weekend with my mom and her new husband!! My husband and I are very lucky that we were able to get pregnant because all the doctors said it was impossible…
Tell me your story or what you think of mine. I really want other teen moms to talk to. So let’s talk.
I’m 19. I am in college. I’m a medical student.
All that’s great, right? Here’s the kicker. I’m 6 months pregnant. I got pregnant from rape. My boyfriend is on the older side, and my dad is sooo tripping. lol. What can I do? I love this baby so much already!
I am having a little girl. Due November 23rd.
I need everyone’s thoughts on this because I can’t take a pregnancy test until at least the beginning of September. So if you could, comment on this or something and let me know whether you think I might be pregnant or not, please? Because I wanna make sure if you guys think I am that I stop doing all the bad things, yeah know?
I’m 15 and the boy is 18 🙂
Alright, so here’s the story: Me and this guy started talking around 2 years ago because my mom’s best friend’s son was best friends with him. Okay, that’s confusing, hahaha. But then last summer, we finally hung out, mostly alone, and ended up just talking about stuff & we ended up kissing.
Since then, we talked off and on.
This past May, he was at my friend’s birthday party. He’s her cousin, and we ended up leaving the party for a bit to go talk about stuff. We decided that we both felt something big every time we hung out. The only thing is… He has a girlfriend, but he’s only with her because she’s 21 :/ but still.
Anyway, one night we were partying together along with all our friends and went swimming in the river & he asked me to stay at his house with our two other friends. Obviously, I said yes. When we got to his house, we showered together & yeah, you know the rest 😛
After neither of us could sleep, but our 2 friends were already asleep when we got outa the shower, so we just sat there and talked for literally 4 hours straight 🙂
This summer, we were always together and had been having sex (unprotected since I’m on birth control). At the end of July, right before I got grounded (I just got off), we had sex, unprotected like always, but I hadn’t been taking my birth control for a week because I forgot it when we all went camping.
So now I’ve missed my period, kinda. I’ve had light spotting.
and I’ve also:
- Had nausea/stomach pain, usually at night
- Been nauseous when I smelled certain foods, even my usual favorites.
- Been peeing a ton
- Had breast tenderness, like its sore to wear a bra
- Had heartburn I think
21 weeks
It’s been a while since my last update. Bubby has been kicking since the 15th week and I found out last week that I’m having a baby boy. Things still haven’t improved between my baby’s dad and me, but I am starting to get used to the fact that we will never get back together, despite the fact that he says he loves me. He has had nothing to do with Bub at all, hasn’t helped with stuff for Bub and the nursery, and is still telling people that it isn’t his baby. I have had to pay for all of the things I have gotten for the baby, had to do cleaning and shopping, and he has been no help at all. He expects me to do everything. I seriously doubt we will be living in the same house for much longer. I have decided to call our son Kieran Xavier. He is so gorgeous. At the ultrasound last week, he was kicking the scanning wand away and hiding from the cameras. And he flashed Nathaniel to show him he was a boy! Morning sickness still hasn’t passed so looks like it is something I will have to put up with. Along with back, rib, and stomach pain, major hormone changes, high blood pressure, and prenatal depression. I really can’t wait until it is time for Kieran to be born. But things aren’t easy. I am finding it hard to find baby items that I need and there are only 4 and a half months left. Plus I still have to finish planning my baby shower which is about 2 and a half months away. I still haven’t even found a new house and I have to start doing that soon if I am going to have a place for me and Kieran to live when he is born. He really is everything to me and I am so glad there was never serious doubt as to whether or not I would keep him.
My life has changed so much, but I believe it is for the better because he has given me so much purpose
Is this really how it feels?
It’s been 1 month since that abortion… I miss her with everything I am. I know I was too early to find out the sex of my baby, but I’m certain it’s a girl. My life has been sooooo rough since then. My ex-boyfriend running my life telling my boyfriend now a whole bunch of crap. My parents the other night got so drunk and hit me and my sister, and my boyfriend took me to his house (Thank God). DCFS might take me and my sister away… I don’t want that to happen. School has started and I have NO FRIENDS in my classes so I sit in the back of class, wondering, thinking about my baby. Since my friend has also gone through the same thing, we asked our social worker to put her in my classes since her reading teacher is pregnant. I honestly can’t take the struggle here at home. I can’t take the struggle in class… Is this it? Is this how it feels to suffocate?
Times like these, I wish I had my baby back…
