I think about it all the time. I have had an abortion and I regret it every day.
I know if I could go back, I would keep my little girl. It’s hard sometimes not to cry. It’s been a year in one month and to this day, I still get teary-eyed when I see something pertaining to pregnancy or abortion. My baby girl’s name was gonna be Trebel Preciayious Hunter. She would have been born January 27. I keep thinkin of seeing the sonogram and hearin her heartbeat, that’s what killed me, that’s what made me break. I keep thinkin what a horrible thing I have done and how can I grow and become someone I once thought I was.
What can I do? And how can I get there?
So yah…. AFTER ALLLL THIS….MY beautiful fiancé decides he wants to wait till we get married to have a baby after all…
Yeah…and I’m a little peed off cos that’s what I wanted to begin with and he didn’t want that. He wanted to have a baby NOW NOW NOW! lol! But now he’s decided what I wanted was best. But I can’t say that I’m entirely happy……you see I got around to the idea of our baby coming soon and now it’s got to a point where I really really want to conceive and have a baby. It’s like someone has just called a halt to my dream… Am I bein selfish? spoiled? stupid? I don’t know…
Deep down, I know that it’s the right way to do things and that’s what I wanted all along. But I guess I just feel dumb because I was willing to change my ideals for him just like that and defend my choice to the hilt. And now HE’s the one telling ME how it should be. A part of me IS happy that we are doing things God’s way, but I can’t help but feel a little deflated……………sad even. I want to be a mommy so bad and the thought that it was gonna be happening so soon…the conception, the good news, the pregnancy…everything . And it seems that whatever we do, he makes the decisions I do the work whether it be emotionally, physically, or internet research-ally (lol). It seems my whole world surrounds his whim.
I don’t know, maybe it’s my own dramatic self making things more of a stress than what it is and I know he has his fair share…but it doesn’t feel like it… 🙁
Okay, I am 17, going to be 18 on November 22. I have an amazing boyfriend. He has been so great to me. So yeah, I’m prego and I have just been really stressed out lately.
I don’t really know how I’m going to tell my mom. My boyfriend’s whole side of the family knows. I have known him since I was a little girl. Like before I found out I was pregnant, he must of already knew because people at his school were askin him and he would always say yeah, she is. But my period came late and I haven’t had one for a month now. So I took a prego test and 30 seconds later, it came out positive like I was sooo happy, I mean having a kid with someone I have known for my whole life. I know he will make a great daddy because all he talks about is him wanting to have a kid with me and yeah. I am not 18 yet, he has been there for me forever ago. I don’t want him to ever leave me for anyone. His mom had asked us both at the same time how are you going to pay for all of this and I wanna get a job but after I turn 18 and stuff. Move out and be with him.
But all this has been is some Baby Mama Drama! I want to have a son.
I don’t know how to help her!!
We meet on the phone through a friend. She was 15 and I was 23. We both lived in different states. I was in a Christian college and she was in a Christian school… We talked for 2 hours every night for 6 months, then she invited me to go and visit her for Thanksgiving Day. I went there with her mom’s permission… I stayed in her sister’s apartment. She came over to spend the night with her too and we ended up… you know. I was a virgin, but I couldn’t tell if she was… In those 6 months that we talked, she had some problems and I help her out. And became so much closer. We never planned to do anything is just happen…
Then I came back to college and I went for the summer to visit her. We did it again, but this time, she got pregnant… I was scared. She just told me and decided with her mom to abort the baby… I was so scared but I wanted the baby… I felt sad but at the same time, her pastor and my pastor knew I was there visiting her and they told me to come back immediately or they would do something… I came…but we wanted to marry as soon as she got 18. I came home and we had a long distant relationship for 6 month. After that, she changed on me. It was different… I repented of all I did and wanted to marry her cuz I really love her and all we went through but now, I found out by letter that she was cheating anyway…
Now she is having a lot of problems. We don’t communicate anymore cuz it was forbidden for my pastor and her pastor but I know she is going for problems and she is living a married life if you know what I mean… She is only 16 now and really hard headed. She don’t understand but deep inside, she knows that the guys she’s dating now are just taking advantage … and she likes sex… I want something for preventing this because I know she’s still in time before is too late and get pregnant with some guy who don’t even care for her. I know that for sure. And we all know what’s the end of it…
I am praying for her but now, it seems she don’t want to listen to nobody… I don’t know how to help her… The only thing I know is soon she will get pregnant like her sisters… The last text she send me said that she would kill herself… because I told her that we had to stop communicating cuz she choose her path already with that other guy. d that life but I don’t know. I know she needs help. I can’t be there now I wish but I can’t. But I am really worried for her. I love her but I know she is being just stubborn but I know she will realize with time about now but it will be late cuz probably, she will end up pregnant again or even worst and I want to avoid it.
If it can be possible, somebody can talk to her anonymously without mentioning my name… I am desperate…
Life has been very hard for me because of the fact that I have been prego three times and each time, I miscarried.
I’m prego now, and I just want people to pray and bless me. I have been with my boyfriend for almost five years and we have been struggling with the fact that my body keeps rejecting the babies so I thought I couldn’t carry.
So just pray for me
Hi,
My partner and I have been trying for a baby for 11 months now. Anyway, let’s cut to the chase shall we. My periods are regular and my normal cycle lasts for approximately 31-32 days. My last period began on the 1st October and during this time, my partner and I had the usual sex routine. However, on the 28th of October, to my surprise, I got my period. I have experienced early periods before, but this time, my period only lasted 2-3 days and I didn’t lose a lot of blood, which is very strange as my periods are fairly heavy. I have also been experiencing pain in my breast and very tender nipples which stick out. I also am feeling a bit of nausea, but I’m not sure if this is down to nerves. I also have headaches.
I just wanted to know if anyone has experienced similar problems as I am stuck and don’t know what to do.
Thanks
