Why is everything so darn stressful? Aghhh.
Well, I’m getting used to things, but at the same time, I’m scared of how I’m going to prepare myself for this baby. I have no clue. But, if girls younger than me have been doing this, than I know I definitely can. I’m just a little bit at a standstill… One thing that’s driving me crazy is getting this community service done. IDK how I’m going to when I work two jobs and go to school! And also, I gotta attend these school violence classes, but how can I if I’m always busy??
IDK I think I need a miracle.
It’s still early on in the pregnancy, but we are nearing the end of the first trimester! I’m still not eating that much, but we are praying that my appetite comes back!
We are always talking about how it would be as parents, and how our child would be. We were making fun that we surely will have a very ‘different’ family. If you mix his and my character and if you know us very well, then you surely can imagine what an energetic/open and crazy baby we would have.
This pregnancy is such a blessing to us. Was just thinking how blessed we truly are. He first blessed us with our marriage and now with this pregnancy.
We can tell now, that once the baby is here, he/she will be truly blessed. Parenting is very hard, but he/she will truly be surrounded with love and surely it will feel loved! Sometimes I watch how he holds a baby and I can really imagine how he will love the child which is our own!
I can be such a worrier. Yesterday, my husband and I were having our conversations again before going to sleep. I was telling him how worried I was as I wasn’t eating enough. Yesterday, I was able to just gulp down my small portion of pasta at the cafeteria at work, ate half an apple and when I got home, I could only eat oatmeal. He told me not to worry, and that the baby is anyway getting what it needs. Now I realise that God knows best. I should trust… He blessed us with this pregnancy and I’m sure He will provide.
I still can’t believe it………. We have created life…..with His blessing! He put the baby’s ultrasound picture as our desktop background. He is surely is a proud Daddy. He never leaves the house or comes home without giving the baby a big kiss. He is always talking to the baby as well and singing…(still hoping the baby doesn’t get his voice…haha). I’m guessing we are already too loud for our baby…haha…. I’m sure he/she would rather sleep. When I’m on my own at home or on my way to work, I always speak to our baby…and I’m more than sure he/she can hear me 🙂
We are excited… Every day, we pray that all will go smoothly with the pregnancy and that the baby is doing fine!
God bless you baby Precilla. Your Mummy and Daddy love you… You truly will be blessed and loved by us and the people around you! We love you and can’t wait till you take your first breath into this world…..and till we see you!
I think about it all the time. I have had an abortion and I regret it every day.
I know if I could go back, I would keep my little girl. It’s hard sometimes not to cry. It’s been a year in one month and to this day, I still get teary-eyed when I see something pertaining to pregnancy or abortion. My baby girl’s name was gonna be Trebel Preciayious Hunter. She would have been born January 27. I keep thinkin of seeing the sonogram and hearin her heartbeat, that’s what killed me, that’s what made me break. I keep thinkin what a horrible thing I have done and how can I grow and become someone I once thought I was.
What can I do? And how can I get there?
So yah…. AFTER ALLLL THIS….MY beautiful fiancé decides he wants to wait till we get married to have a baby after all…
Yeah…and I’m a little peed off cos that’s what I wanted to begin with and he didn’t want that. He wanted to have a baby NOW NOW NOW! lol! But now he’s decided what I wanted was best. But I can’t say that I’m entirely happy……you see I got around to the idea of our baby coming soon and now it’s got to a point where I really really want to conceive and have a baby. It’s like someone has just called a halt to my dream… Am I bein selfish? spoiled? stupid? I don’t know…
Deep down, I know that it’s the right way to do things and that’s what I wanted all along. But I guess I just feel dumb because I was willing to change my ideals for him just like that and defend my choice to the hilt. And now HE’s the one telling ME how it should be. A part of me IS happy that we are doing things God’s way, but I can’t help but feel a little deflated……………sad even. I want to be a mommy so bad and the thought that it was gonna be happening so soon…the conception, the good news, the pregnancy…everything . And it seems that whatever we do, he makes the decisions I do the work whether it be emotionally, physically, or internet research-ally (lol). It seems my whole world surrounds his whim.
I don’t know, maybe it’s my own dramatic self making things more of a stress than what it is and I know he has his fair share…but it doesn’t feel like it… 🙁
Okay, I am 17, going to be 18 on November 22. I have an amazing boyfriend. He has been so great to me. So yeah, I’m prego and I have just been really stressed out lately.
I don’t really know how I’m going to tell my mom. My boyfriend’s whole side of the family knows. I have known him since I was a little girl. Like before I found out I was pregnant, he must of already knew because people at his school were askin him and he would always say yeah, she is. But my period came late and I haven’t had one for a month now. So I took a prego test and 30 seconds later, it came out positive like I was sooo happy, I mean having a kid with someone I have known for my whole life. I know he will make a great daddy because all he talks about is him wanting to have a kid with me and yeah. I am not 18 yet, he has been there for me forever ago. I don’t want him to ever leave me for anyone. His mom had asked us both at the same time how are you going to pay for all of this and I wanna get a job but after I turn 18 and stuff. Move out and be with him.
But all this has been is some Baby Mama Drama! I want to have a son.
I don’t know how to help her!!
We meet on the phone through a friend. She was 15 and I was 23. We both lived in different states. I was in a Christian college and she was in a Christian school… We talked for 2 hours every night for 6 months, then she invited me to go and visit her for Thanksgiving Day. I went there with her mom’s permission… I stayed in her sister’s apartment. She came over to spend the night with her too and we ended up… you know. I was a virgin, but I couldn’t tell if she was… In those 6 months that we talked, she had some problems and I help her out. And became so much closer. We never planned to do anything is just happen…
Then I came back to college and I went for the summer to visit her. We did it again, but this time, she got pregnant… I was scared. She just told me and decided with her mom to abort the baby… I was so scared but I wanted the baby… I felt sad but at the same time, her pastor and my pastor knew I was there visiting her and they told me to come back immediately or they would do something… I came…but we wanted to marry as soon as she got 18. I came home and we had a long distant relationship for 6 month. After that, she changed on me. It was different… I repented of all I did and wanted to marry her cuz I really love her and all we went through but now, I found out by letter that she was cheating anyway…
Now she is having a lot of problems. We don’t communicate anymore cuz it was forbidden for my pastor and her pastor but I know she is going for problems and she is living a married life if you know what I mean… She is only 16 now and really hard headed. She don’t understand but deep inside, she knows that the guys she’s dating now are just taking advantage … and she likes sex… I want something for preventing this because I know she’s still in time before is too late and get pregnant with some guy who don’t even care for her. I know that for sure. And we all know what’s the end of it…
I am praying for her but now, it seems she don’t want to listen to nobody… I don’t know how to help her… The only thing I know is soon she will get pregnant like her sisters… The last text she send me said that she would kill herself… because I told her that we had to stop communicating cuz she choose her path already with that other guy. d that life but I don’t know. I know she needs help. I can’t be there now I wish but I can’t. But I am really worried for her. I love her but I know she is being just stubborn but I know she will realize with time about now but it will be late cuz probably, she will end up pregnant again or even worst and I want to avoid it.
If it can be possible, somebody can talk to her anonymously without mentioning my name… I am desperate…
