Well, I’m about 18 weeks preggo and I’m still with my boyfriend.
We’re both happy but yet terrified. We haven’t told our parents yet and his are very Christian and mine, well they’d just flip and I don’t know what to tell them, ugh…. I wish I had advice on how to tell them. They didn’t even know we were having sex….. I’m 14!
But I love my baby already and I can feel them kick and it makes me smile and just so happy =] But telling the parents is soo scary.
OK, I have a 2-month-old baby boy named Lucas and I think I am pregnant again.
I’m not sure. I might not be. But I do not know what I would do with another baby.
Well, I guess I don’t need to freak out until I find out for sure. But… I’m just getting ready just in case I am.
Hopefully, I’m not though.
Last September, I had an ex-boyfriend who died suddenly at 18. His heart had a hole in it and the doctors never knew. He also had a then 2-year-old daughter named Daja, and her mother never wanted her and left her with my ex-boyfriend when she was only a month old. He took sole custody of her with the help of his dad.
My ex cheated on me and that’s how he ended up with a daughter. I cared about him and his child even though he had cheated. I helped take care of Daja. I babysat, I took her shopping, spent time with her. I was the only mother she’s “really” ever known and I love her like she is my flesh and blood, not like a child that was born because her father cheated on me.
When they moved to Washington State because my ex’s father, who is in the military, was given a job out there, I was heartbroken. My son had just been adopted, and I was deeply depressed. Being with them made me feel whole. So when his father was sent to Afghanistan and he came back to where I live, I was ecstatic!
He moved in with his great-aunt, who didn’t want him or Daja, so I had Daja at my house almost everyday, I took her out a lot, my ex and I were kinda co-parenting. It was great. Then I was raped and became pregnant with twins, but my ex was there for me; he was best friend. He was my rock and when he died suddenly about a month after I was raped, the world came crashing down on me.
His dad couldn’t come home for the funeral. His aunt and I argued about where he was gonna be buried. His aunt neglected Daja and she wanted to put her in foster care, because she never wanted her. So I decided to seek custody. I was 16 so they wouldn’t grant it. His aunt agreed to “keep” her as long as I helped out with her. I glady agreed.
Now I’m 18. Daja is at my house at least 2 weekends a month and I’m hoping that once I get a good job, she will be with me for good. I might be sick now and if the tumor in my brain is cancerous, what’s gonna happen to Daja? I hope that it’s just a tumor and that they will grant me custody. Daja deserves so much more than she has now and I want to be there for her.
Her dad would’ve wanted that and I want to do it. I love her as much as I love my son. Does that make me “her” mom; is she “my” daughter?
It’s been over 2 years since I’ve been off “the shot” or the depo shot and my soon-to-be hubby and I really want a baby.
We have everything together in almost every way, from a good job to a nice place to live. We can’t seem to get pregnant. I thought I made the right choice by getting on the shot in high school, but now I’m not so sure.
I have always wanted to be a mommy. I don’t know what I’ll do if it turns out I can’t have kids.
Hey guys, don’t really know what to write here. I’d just like to stress how much abortions are the worst thing ever! I was forced into having an abortion at 22 weeks by my mum and boyfriend in May and I’m still suffering!
My life is a wreck. All my friends that were pregnant at the same time as me are having their babies and I always cry thinking, where is mine? I really feel disgusted that I didn’t stand up to them.
I feel so empty and lonely. My mum kicked me out cos she couldn’t deal with me being so upset. I miss her loads, but not sure if I can forgive her.
Would be great to hear from people that have maybe been through similar or are facing abortion. Please don’t do it!!!!
Hi. OK, so I am a teen mom.
My baby boy is 2 months and his name is Lucas.
I love him to death, I would do anything for him.
But I am only 15.
Everybody has smart comments, especially at school.
I needs some advice about what to say and other stuff too.
So I need an experienced young mom, that knows what I’m going through.
Please and thank you!
