Hello!!
Today was my first prenatal appointment with my doctor! Omg, I could not have imagined what was going to happen. I mean, I had hopes, but no real idea. Well, I didn’t get the ultrasound that I wanted. But, I did get to hear the baby’s heartbeat!! I have never experienced anything like that before! My husband was so excited that he could barely sit in his seat!! We also got a care package from my doctor and found out that I will be going a town over to give birth. She said that she doesn’t do that here. But, that’s OK. She also told me that I have some testing to do. I have had some abnormalities in my uterus, and she is going to take a closer look at it to see if everything is going to be safe for my baby.
She told me not to stress about it, and not think about it. But, please keep your fingers crossed that everything will be ok. She said that chances are, everything will be fine. I really hope so. Have a good night. Bye!!
I got to hear my baby’s heart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WEEK 21
I’m 18 and I’m 21 weeks pregnant and very happy that I’m able to actually have kids… I’m starting to feel Him/Her move and starting to feel more pregnant now. I’m overweight…as I have been my whole life. Sooo when I was told I was pregnant, it took me awhile to actually believe that I was pregnant because I didn’t “feel” pregnant. But now only when I lay down, I have no problem feeling the baby..=) I’M SOOO HAPPY about that.
One other thing that’s not soo good is that I smoke cigarettes. Which I already know is VERY bad but I was smoking before I got pregnant and am having a very VERY hard time quitting. The minute I feel stress coming on, I smoke a cigarette. And every pregnant female knows we stress out Very easily… Is there anyone else that is having this problem? Does this mean that i don’t love my baby if I don’t have the strength to quit smoking for my unborn child?
What’s wrong with me?
I was so scared when I first found out that I was pregnant.
I went to the health department and sure enough, I was pregnant. The first person I told was my boyfriend and he acted so excited. Then 2 weeks later, he dumped me for one of his old friends. The hardest part was telling my mom, considering she thought I was still a virgin! I was so scared and confused. All I could think about is… How did I get this way? I never thought I’d get pregnant, especially at 15, and I could never get an abortion so there was no question there. Now I’m 16 years old and 7 months pregnant with a baby boy. My family and I could never be more happier.
Point is… Don’t stress if the baby daddy leaves you. He’s probably just scared and you can more than likely find better… And truth be told.. every woman can be INDEPENDENT!!
I’m 18 and I found out I was pregnant the day before Thanksgiving this past year. I was living with my boyfriend.
When he found out, we were happy but we knew what was going to happen. Both of our families had told us if we got pregnant before we got married in August that we would have to abort the baby or move the wedding up! I didn’t want to move the wedding up because I wasn’t ready to get married. But I listened to everybody telling me I had to either abort or get married so when I was seven weeks pregnant. I went to have my baby aborted but before I did, I asked if it had a heartbeat. The lady smiled and said yes it does. And then she said lay back and we’ll get this over with. I looked at my boyfriend and he was in shock that she was going to do it when it had a heartbeat and was a living baby. He grabbed my hand and told me “He loved me and we couldn’t kill a living piece of me and him!” I got dressed and we left.
The next day, I went to the doctor and I got to hear MY baby’s heartbeat. We got married not long after that. We got married on December 22. I am 21 weeks now and I am glad I didn’t go though with aborting my baby. I just want to tell all of the girls on your site. Don’t do what other people want you to do. I read the stories on the site of girls feeling like they have no choice. I felt like I was getting pushed into aborting my baby. But I couldn’t when I found out that a baby has a heart beat at 3 to 4 weeks old. And I will never forget the feeling I feel when I feel my baby kick inside of me. In Just 18 more weeks, I will have a little girl or boy. My husband works 7 days a week now to pay for everything. It is hard but everytime he hears his baby’s heartbeat, he just smiles and says that’s our baby, And it is all worth it!!
Never give up on a life you have inside you. It is the most wonderful thing in the world! I hope my story helps someone else like the stories I have read helped me. Thanks
Hi, I’m Torn.. a newbie in the site. I’m 6 months pregnant…
Still, I’m living in the hard way. I never thought of conceiving a baby this very early because I’m still in college but it did happen. I broke up with my boyfriend 6 months ago because he’s already married… He is my professor in college… Until I found out that I’m pregnant… It is hard for me to face this alone.
I don’t want my child to suffer… I’m really torn, torn into pieces.
So I have decided to keep my baby… I am now 13 weeks and 2 days. I almost did have the abortion but I just couldn’t do it again. I figure it must be meant for me to have this child, so I am. I know it’s going to be a struggle but I believe that we can do it.
Yesterday, I got to hear the baby’s heartbeat. It was really amazing!! Now I just need to tell my mom. I hope everything goes well with that conversation. But we shall see. My boyfriend is very excited and he told me yesterday that he’s nervous about everything… He’s so cute…lol. Anyway, I can’t wait to get my ultrasound…
So I’ll keep you all posted.
