I’m 16 years old and I think I might be pregnant. I am experiencing all the early symptoms. Can someone give me advice or anything that might help me? I’m too frightened to talk to my boyfriend about it at the moment.
Please, someone help me!
Hiiiii.
Now I’m 36 weeks & 3 days (: I’m done with that terrible UTI & doing amazing.
I went to my doctor a few days ago & she went to feel for his head, but had to keep lowering her hands! He’s WAY down there & inching out! haha.
My boyfriend is still at his job which is awesome (: He has his first night of night shift tonight! He kept himself up ALL night last night (with the aid of a friend) til he came home at 2 a.m. and woke me up >:() and went to bed at 7 a.m. He finally woke up around four p.m and left at 6 p.m. He’ll be back around 7 a.m. then the same thing for two more nights. I’ll barely get to see him this week (sleep, work, sleep, work.. we’re on different schedules) but he’s bringing home the bacon so its okay. <3
My schooling is going awesome (: I hope to be finished and graduated before June or sooner! Then I can get my adult ed. classes for college out of the way before I start college. I have to take a math, science and a couple englishes because I didn’t get to finish or take them at public & the school I’m at doesn’t make you do them. But whatever (:
My boyfriend is a man with plan now about a house for us… not apartment, house. His mother has extra land and he calculated it all out & he wants to put in all the septic & electric& water stuff & stick a trailer on it. Hahah, gotta love boys. If he makes it happen or starts to make it happen, I’ll back him all the way haha (: The money from having a union job is getting to his head (: But its okay.
Due to his night shifts and him having to sleep during the day, I’m cleaning out my brother’s room & turning it into a “guest room”. So I can stay in there with [redacted] when my boyfriend is trying to sleep during the day… Then his crying woke wake up his sleepy daddy & vice versa. And my dad stays in there when his girlfriend stays over,( yeah they sleep in diff rooms… she’s weird) So it’ll be nice to have another room. It has to be cleaned completely & filled with mouse traps & painted before anyone can stay in there. I plan to get all that done before I go into labor.
I’m so happy with life right now(: Its just amazing. I got a bassinet and put it together all by myself (: SO proud. I have a little storage basket on the underneath part with diapers, wipes, baby power and all that butt stuff & an extra package of diapers and wipes.
Okay, This is long & I wanna watch me some south park.(:
I recently had a baby girl in July and last Friday, found out I was pregnant again. My boyfriend and I used less than responsible ways to prevent, it but now he is saying it would be best if we don’t keep it. But I’m scared of getting an abortion and wouldn’t do adoption and also don’t know how I would be able to afford another baby. I just need help making a decision. And my boyfriend is three hours away at school and only here during breaks so it’s already hard with one child so I don’t know what to do
My question is does any other girl find themself always worrying about their baby in their womb?
I’m a first-time mommy and I find myself always worrying about things. Like, someone may bump into me or run into me, or something else will happen. I know it’s not good to worry, but I’m such a worry wart already.
Any advice?
ABOUT ME:
1. How many weeks along are you?
22 Weeks
2. Do you know the gender of your baby?
Little Boy
3. Have you picked out names? (Share if you like)
Davit Brayden Collins
4. Have you had colustrum/breast milk yet?
Nope.
5. Have you had Braxton Hicks?
Nope
6. Has your baby dropped yet?
not yet.
7. Are you a FTM?
YES! Super nervous.
8. Who is most excited about baby besides you?
My Boyfriend and Friends.
My son’s father texted me last night for the first time in 4 months.
He did not care anything about his son. He only wanted to know how I was doing. He really made me feel like he doesn’t want anything to do with his son. I feel like I am going crazy because I don’t know what to do. I love my son it’s just I wish there was a way to change my son’s father, but keep my son the way he is. I have lost a lot in the past year and 5 months I have gained a lot as well. I may be only 17, but I know that I love my son more than I have ever loved someone. It’s just his father makes me wish that I didn’t get pregnant. I have worked so hard to give my son everything that he has needed. ♥
I just joined this site a few minutes ago. I’m not sure how all of this works, but I’ve read a lot of the stories on here.
I am looking for advice and support and I am very scared right now.
I am 20 years old, a 3-year college student with an extremely social life. I work at a bar/grill where I deal with alcohol and a crazy environment. I am studying radiology and just moved away from home, into my own place…and bought a puppy a little over a month ago. Well, my boyfriend and I were having a conversation a few months ago joking about what would happen if I were to get pregnant. We never thought this would happen to us. He and I have been through SO MUCH… and I’m about to share my story on him which is why I am in such a rut…
He and I started dating in July of this year, but have dated once two years ago and met five years ago. Two years ago, he left me for another girl and moved in with her…then left her for me again… He cheated on me early in our relationship and had continued his “cheating” for months without my knowing. Since I’ve known, I’ve been down/depressed/sad all the time, wondering what is going on or what I didn’t do right. He yells and says he misses how I used to be happy and a free spirit all the time and that’s why he fell in love with… But then why did he cheat? More stuff has happened and we argue ALL the time. But you can’t help who you fall in love with, it’s so hard… My family doesn’t like him and I can’t even bring him home. What hurts the most is when I picture my life.. I picture a great man who loves me and I can bring home and enjoy life with my family as well as the one I love, almost finished with college, married in a few years THEN children.
But we got ourselves in this situation and I am pregnant. I am so unsure what I am going to do. A baby doesn’t deserve to go through a rough/unstable home. It’s not fair. I also can’t do this alone, or at least I am scared. I know my mom would help and love it eventually, but she doesn’t want me to have this child either, due to him being a part of my life forever. It’ll be so hard for me to stay concentrated in school and to find a good man… What guy (my age) would want to be tied down to a single mother and child..? Gosh it’s so much to think about. I have always been against abortion and I really don’t think I could go through with it. It’s my decision.. but it’s also my life.
I am driving myself crazy thinking about this…
Any advice?
