Last month, my parents knew that I was 5 months pregnant. Funny, isn’t? I hid my pregnancy for a very long time and it’s not easy. Honestly, I’m so scared to death. I’m a fresh graduate and I don’t have a job. I don’t want to be a burden to my family so I considered abortion first…
Actually, it’s really a hard decision…
I still have many dreams. I’m just 21 years old and I want to help my parents. I can’t believe that I’ll be able to put myself in this kind of situation.
But then I’m afraid to abort my baby. I don’t think that I’ll be able to do that because I came from a very religious family.
I fall and soon I know things will be fine… I’ll be happy with my baby.
My boyfriend and I now think of marriage. He’s just 20 years old but he’s very responsible.
Actually, its funny coz I’m the one who’s confused whether to marry him or not. He really wants to marry me and he’s ready to be a father, he’s really mature.
My family is very supportive. They are excited for my child. Although I gave them a big disappointment, still they make me feel loved and BLESSED..
I guess I’ll be having a wonderful girl and I’ll shower her with so much love just like the way my family showed me love..
For all the girls out there who think of abortion, all I could say is “Everything happens for a reason”. The moment I found out that I’m pregnant, I was scared to death but I know “Everything happens for a reason”.
If you’ll kill your baby, you won’t find the reason..
God bless to all of us…
I have been having unprotected sex since May.
My period comes like clockwork every month on the 26th, but the last one was different. I was feeling sick, had sore breasts and nipples I took a test but it was negative. Then a day later, I started bleeding, that was June 23rd. 3 days early, which never happens. it was just light spotting and then I got a medium flow that was reddish brown and then got lighter but only lasted 3-4 days, which isn’t normal for me. Usually, my periods are extremely heavy and last 7-10 days but this one was different. On Tuesday, July 6th, I started spotting very little and then it stopped. I’ve also been nauseous and getting headaches. I took a test but it was negative again. I currently have a UTI and wondered if it is affecting my pregnancy test or could it be too early to tell?
If I am pregnant, I would only be about 4 weeks along… Any advice?
I am 16 years old. My boyfriend, he is 19 years old and we are expecting a baby.
My best friend is pregnant. She is due on Dec. 5th. So she has really been here for me, helping me out a lot. I dunno what I would do without her by my side… I haven’t told my parents or his parents yet. I think he is more excited about this baby than I am. He really wants a little girl. I am really scared. And I have no clue how to even tell my parents. I’m not really worried about his parents becuz they are going to support us no matter what. but I don’t even know how to tell my dad. My dad is going to be very disappointed.
What do I do?
I’m 19 and I have a beautiful 4-month-old baby and I have found out that I am pregnant again and I’m already 11 1/2 weeks.
My bf at first did not want our first child due to our futures and I made the decision to keep her. She is both of our worlds =] our everything. Well anyways, I went to the ER the other day for having pains and ended up getting An ultrasound and seeing the baby moving and everything. My bf wants me to get an abortion and there’s no other option in his eyes. I told him ok but deep down, I don’t want to do it and regret it… I’ve seen the heartbeat and I feel like I’ll be a murderer if I follow through. The hardest is I have a 4-month-old baby girl that I’m doin all I can to support her and don’t know if I can support another baby.
I don’t know what to do. =..[
For the past week, I’ve been constantly worrying if I’ve gotten pregnant.
My last period was less than 3 days and extremely light, and I haven’t started this month yet and it’s been 2 days. I’m fairly regular. I’m on birth control, and my boyfriend and I don’t use condoms because I have never had problems with the pill before now. I’ll be turning 17 in 16 days, and I’m scared out of my mind at the thought of raising a child at this age. My boyfriend is scared too, and has voiced that he isn’t ready to raise a child. He’s 19. But there is this part of me, that when I think about having a baby, I get excited and happy. I know if I am pregnant, I would never get an abortion. But I don’t think adoption is an option for me, either… I know that having a child is life-changing – I’ll have less free time, I’ll have to grow up a lot faster than I normally would, I’d have tenfold the responsibilities. But the thought of carrying a child in my womb for 9 months, 9 months! I would instantly bond, I have that extremely strong maternal instinct. Giving up a baby would just shoot me straight back into the depression I have worked so hard in my life to overcome. Along with that, if I was stupid enough to get myself into this situation, I believe that I need to take responsibility for my actions, even if it means giving up on a lot. I hate to admit it, but the thought of having a child, even at this age, makes me incredibly happy.
But I’m torn – if I am pregnant, should I keep the baby and take responsibility for my irresponsibility, risking my boyfriend and I’s relationship? Or do I give the baby up for adoption, giving him or her a chance at a wonderful life, risking my own happiness?
I’m 16, had sex the day after I stopped bleeding, and now the blood tests say yes…….. I don’t know what we’re gonna do about how to support our baby, but abortion is OUT OF THE QUESTION…… Btw, this was found out at 10 this morning… Morning sickness has been horrible, I throw up at a moment’s notice, my boobs hurt if you look at them wrong, have not told any parents, only mentioned it to my best friend and my stepcousin…
I’m not sure what to do, too early for boy/girl, have Serenity Alora for a girl… no clue about boy names, pls any advice/names would be adored
