i think i mite b prego

Is the first 2 weeks counted in pregnancy? 4 weeks and 3 days are really 2 weeks and 4 days, right?

IDK I’m kinda confused becuz I think I’m pregnant. Also, I need help.

Hello….

Hi! I’m fairly new to this site. I’ll just start with the basics and post more tomorrow.

I’m fifteen and live in NY. My boyfriend and I have been together for (almost) 1 year and 10 months. I’ve had a crush on him since 5th grade, even after he said I was a coward and not his type (in 7th grade). We (finally!) started going out in the middle of eighth.

My mom had me and my older brother in her early twenties. She divorced my father due to drug and alcohol addiction, so I know nothing about him, which is starting to bother me. My mom remarried, had my younger brother and sister, and after being neglected by my stepdad, we are now going through a rough separation where he refuses to make contact with us about anything, especially since he’s living with his girlfriend.

I had an abortion about 7 months ago. It’s been excruciatingly tough to deal with. I’ve been starting to become depressed due to it, because I never wanted to go through with it; my boyfriend did. I hurt so much still. If anyone has any words of how to get through this, please let me know. I’m almost going to have to see a psychiatrist due to my depression, and my heart is breaking more and more every day.

-R

I’m PREGNANT!

Today, October 28, 2009, I found out for sure I was pregnant. The bomb hit me with tears of joy and tears of pain. Joy for the fact that I was carrying God’s child, a living thing, a part of me. Pain for the fact that my mom says I have to get an abortion.

I don’t want an abortion…oh no way! I believe abortion is the worst way to deal with pregnancy, regardless of the child’s age. You see, I’m only a freshie in high school, and I know I shouldn’t have had sex in the first place. That’s my fault for making a dumb decision so being pregnant is my decision and will be my responsibility to deal with…

But to be told that I HAVE to have an abortion kills me. I’d rather give it up for adoption, but I would never want to take away my child’s life, or any even anyone else’s, for that matter.

Being the victim of a forced-abortion is terrible…and I’m in so much more pain than if I was in labor right now.

how my life has been lately, can you relate?

Hi guys,

I live in a small town isolated where everybody knows everybody.

So you’ll understand that’s why I met my boyfriend on the internet.

A bit of a joke really, we don’t usually tell people where we met.

Runescape. a popular online adventure game set in the medieval times. I didn’t like it for that, I liked it for the fact that you could talk to people from all around the world instantaneously. It amazed me. I had only just gotten a computer for a present that xmas.

My waaay over-controlling boyfriend at the time pressured me into playing. Just like he read through my texts all the time and checked my e-mails, and growled at me for everything. talking to a guy was cheating to him and he always threatened to kill himself. Anyway, enough about that.

When I met my now current boyfriend, something just clicked.

Yes girls, just like those ‘too good to be true’ scenes out of movies. it really does happen!.

As silly as it may seem to some people that believe real love is only felt when you’re with someone. So anyway, we got talking and that grew and grew and grew and we were the best of friends. He eventually gave me the confidence to break up with my boyfriend, which I had been too scared to do for about a year. Not long after that, he asked me out, and I said yes.

Then we started talking on the phone, and then the webcam, and then, I finally got to meet him in real life!. I invited him to my ball. And then before I knew it, he had to go. 5 days had never gone past so fast in my whole life. It felt like part of me was getting ripped away. He was now my rock. I needed him.

Long distance relationships have something non-distant relationships don’t, the appreciativeness of the presence of the one you love. We take nothing for granted and make the most of everything in the short time we do have together, even just looking into each other’s eyes is the best thing in the world.

50 days after that, I got to go up and see him. This time, it was 3 weeks with him. I was on the pill, sure, I missed a few. sometimes two in a row. I knew I had to take them, but in the back of my mind, it always seemed wrong, just like using a condom.

I tried so hard to stop myself thinking like this but i couldn’t. And then 2 long weeks after I got ripped away from him again, I had a suspected miscarriage. Till this day right now, it is still not resolved. Whether its the poor efforts of the doctors, just trying to convince me it was just a “bad period”, I know deep down that wasn’t a period. I know what a period is. A period could never hurt enough to knock you out. And I know periods don’t have white clots.

But, having this unresolved is beginning to have a burden on my heart. It hurts. I wana know. And either way, every time I see someone else my age pregnant, it hurts.

I want the doctor to say, “Yes, it seems you were pregnant.” At least I would know I was, and that I had a tiny human inside of me that me and the one I love made together.

I’ve tried to wait, but i just cant!

I wana have that chance again. I would do whatever it takes.

It makes me feel complete

i want to be complete.

Being Pregnant at 16

Hi! Guys, I’m 16 years old and about to have a baby girl.

When I first found out I was pregnant, I was shocked. I thought this would never happen 2 me but it did. At first, I just did not want 2 believe it but I had 2 face reality. I was so mad at myself and worst of all, I was terrified 2 tell my mother. But I’ve overcome all of it.

And today, here I am, with just 4 more months 2 go.

What To Do..

I don’t even know where to begin…

I am 20 years old and will be 21 in Feb. I am already a mommy of a beautiful little girl who will be 2 in Feb… I just recently found out I am 5 weeks pregnant as of last Thursday. I’ve completely been against abortions since I could remember… but faced with the decision now, it’s complicated… I’ve only been with the father for about only 5 months, who is already a father and is completely against abortions… Which is why he doesn’t know about his own child yet=/… I feel guilty bc I don’t know what to do. I went to the doctors to see how far I was and they did an ultra-sound which made it even harder… There was only a little black dot and I just stared when he told me. It was like, I knew after 3 positive pregnancy tests but it made it so real when I actually saw it…

I didn’t even talk to my doctor about my unsureness because I was too ashamed for even feeling the way I do. He was so excited for me and said here’s a picture of your dot… I wanted to be excited and I wanted to run home like I did with my first pregnancy and show my family “My Dot”… But nobody knows except for my mom, who is torn for me… I am terrified though… My daughter’s father left when she was 12 weeks old and hasn’t done anything but hurt us the past 2 years. I’ve done everything, but make him be in her life… I’ve become very independent and wouldn’t change my past for ANYTHING because my daughter is my world. Without her, I wouldn’t be the same… She’s the reason I wake up every morning. I’m in love with being a mother…

And then, after almost 2 years of being single and in and out of guys who just weren’t right for my daughter and I, I met the guy I am with now, who seems so perfect for me… But it all just happened so fast… He’s WONDERFUL TO ME AND MY DAUGHTER and my family loves him, but I just think a 2nd child right now would just make things complicated. Which sounds so selfish, I know, but I still live at home with my mom, work at a restaurant as a hostess, and I make enough to get by, and just got everything together to go to college to be a RN… I am just completely torn. My mom is worried because she says I cant just block it out… I know I can’t and that’s what I’ve done as if I don’t have to face it…

Yesterday, I told my mom to make the appt. She said are you sure and I just felt like I had made up my mind to have an abortion… She called me today and said okay, I am going to call and I said no… She came home and said that I needed to stop denying I was pregnant… I knew I needed other opinions and I didn’t want it to be from anyone that I knew so I got on here… I know no one can make the decision for me or make my mind up… I just thought that maybe hearing other stories or opinions would help… I’m lost and hate feeling this way… I just want to do the right thing and I don’t know what the right thing is right now… I keep wondering how I’ll feel if I go through with it and after reading some of the stories, I don’t want to regret anything, but I don’t want to just get by. I want to better myself before bringing another child into this world, but at the same time I don’t want to take a life away =/ .