Hi. I am a teen mom.
I feel society has brainwashed people into believing that teen pregnancy is horrible and unforgivable. Because of my feelings, I decided to do a report in my English class to try and understand how something that was done years ago (getting married and starting a family at a young age) became so very wrong.
Please write to me expressing your true feelings about being pregnant, raising children, or having abortions so I can open my eyes or others to how teens really feel about pregnancy.
Well, I’m turning 17 in a couple of months… And I think I’m prego, but I’m not sure yet….
I’m gonna wait a couple of days… My older sister had her baby when she was 16 and my whole family was very disappointed……. I’m scared that if I tell them, they will also be disappointed in me and I was the good girl in the whole family because everyone thought that I wasn’t goin’ to get prego at a young age like all my cousins…… I just need help. I’m so scared… But at the same time, I do want a baby… My boyfriend told me that we will live together and he will marry me when I turn 18… I love him so much.
He has been there for me all the times I need someone…..
Hey girls! (:
I haven’t been on this website long, but I love it. I think it’s doing such an amazing job of helping girls make a stand, and keep their babies. I keep feeling my baby wiggle about, and it’s the most amazing feeling in the world. It’s odd at first lol as I didn’t have a clue what the heck it was! But then I realized it’s my baby moving. The baby has got its own pattern of when it moves… In the morning, it sleeps for a few hours, so I don’t feel much. But in the afternoon, it’s bouncing around everywhere. Any girl who needs help or advice, don’t be scared to contact me.
I’ll do anything to help you. x
So my grandma died on Monday.
I’m really really sad because my wedding is next month and that’s all she talked about. I don’t know what to do right now. I’m a wreck, plus I have to take care of my babies… (daddy helps A LOT) but still….. I’m at work and just want to cry because my grandma was supposed to see me walk down the aisle with the man she really liked and wanted me to marry.
It’s not fair everything always has to happen to me when things are going GREAT!!!
Hi, I am currently ttc (trying to conceive). I am new to this website and already love it!
If anyone has any tips on ttc, please send me a message 🙂 Just some background: I am not overweight, don’t smoke, do drugs, but have insanely irregular periods (no 2 have been the same since I started in the 7th grade!). I am 19 years old and have an amazing fiancé who is the most supportive person I’ve ever met. We have been ttc for 1 year and 3 months. Everyone always says to go to the doctor, but I really believe in being all-natural. So I hope this year will be our year! 🙂
Baby dust to all !<3<3<3
A part of me wants to get pregnant again on purpose. I’m back on regular birth control pills where I can control if I get pregnant or not again…
I don’t know if that’s a bad thing to do or if it’s a normal feeling. I’ve been having this dream over and over again where I’m 5 months pregnant, and everyone around me is happy and excited for me. I know that it’s my brain playing tricks on me in showing me what I really wanted to happen when I was pregnant last time… I have a confession. Last time, I did get pregnant on purpose; I wanted a baby, and then when I finally had one, I was happy, I wasn’t sad and I didn’t cry, I smiled for about 3 hours. But no one around me was smiling like I was.
I feel like I am much more mature than I was a year ago. I’m 19 now, out of school, in a very very stable relationship, and we are planning to get married =) But should I try to get pregnant again like I want to, and just not let him know my plans? Is that so horrible to want to do? This dream I’ve been having is just so vivid with emotions and feelings. I even feel my baby kicking in my tummy in the dream. For the last couple weeks, I’ve been really thinking I was pregnant again. I’ve been feeling sick all day long, I haven’t started my period, my boobs hurt, and I’m craving really random foods (last time all I could think about was having a thanksgiving dinner lol). But idk, I take a test and it says negative… So I have no idea what’s going on.
I really wish my boyfriend would understand my feelings a little bit more. Talking about it with him is truly therapeutic for me. My whole life, I’ve kept in all my feelings which has made me crack quite a few times. And now I finally have my soulmate where I can express everything I’m feeling, but I just feel like I can’t with this…. He knows I want a baby really badly. I’ve asked him a few times, if I got pregnant again, would he ask me to have an abortion again? And he said absolutely not, but idk what my mom would do. I know my dad would support me. He’s very against abortion as I am, but my mom has had 2-3 abortions in her lifetime so I know her opinion on the subject. She just doesn’t understand why I can’t get over it. She is always saying she got over it very fast, and I did some research. Women who do it on their own free will are less likely to have as much guilt about it as women who do it against their wishes. I just feel like I’m stuck between a rock and a hard spot. I want a baby more than anything, but I’m scared that if I do, my mom would kick me out of the house and I’d have nowhere to go, unless my dad takes me in. I’m not scared that I’ll lose my boyfriend, not one bit. He’s my rock, my everything, and he’s with me no matter what happens.
What should I do?? Help!
