I’m almost 18 and I just had an abortion on the 20th of Feb, not by choice. It was my boyfriend who said to do it because we couldn’t do it.
He’s the only guy I’ve ever had sex with so I didn’t know what to do… Well, I made the biggest mistake of my life; I had an abortion at 7 weeks and 4 days. And I can tell you, anyone wanting to get an abortion to really think about this and not be pressured. No one in my family knows so I’m pretty much on my own through everything, I cried myself to sleep last night feeling like a murderer. A murderer of an innocent baby… MY BABY….
IDK how girls do this, mentally idk how i can get through this i cant really depend on my boyfriend becasue all hes worried about is the sex because i told him no more since mentally i cant do this again and i WONT do it again.. i feel all alone.. im feeling every emotion except the happy ones. i dont feel relieved, or glad, or free, i feel i failed as a person. i feel i took an innocent life who didnt ask to be brought into the world… i feel miserable. i keep replaying the day in my head over and over.. i got the ultra sound and saw my baby and i cried. then went to the operation room.. ive never prayed so hard in all my life. i changed into the gown prayed one last time ,said goodbye to my baby and the procedure begain…. i cant believe myself for what ive done.. i will never be the same again. and going through this alone is nearly killing me.. no girl should have to endure such pain and the guys just dont understand the bond of a mother and her baby, he called it an “it” i never did. it was my baby, a part of me, i carried it for 7wks and 4days and the thought of it growing and never knowing that the 20th of feb would be the day i gave my baby wings just breaks my heart into.. mentally idk how i can take much more…
anyone who has been in my shoes please tell me how your dealing with this please..
I have decided on aborting.
I’m somewhere between 12-16 weeks. At times, I feel as if though I have waited too long to proceed with what I have set my mind to. I’ve dealt with the crankiness, my body is going through unexpected changes, backaches, cramping, the works, to put it all in a nutshell.
Still, with all of this, I am afraid, just of the process in general…
so iv been scrolling through the process im about to go through and im trying to get around it in my head what im about to do. tomorrow i will abort my child im 9weeks pregnent and 16years young iv never been more scared in my life today is wednesday and i found out i was pregnent on saturday. im amazed with the suport i have had from my family and my boyfriend now even tho it isnt even his child. i cry everyday because aborting goes against everything in my religion and everything iv ever really believed in. im really scared and tomorrow my mother or boyfriend cant come to the abortion.
Hi just looking for a prego buddy due in or around June 2010
I all I haven’t been in all but here is an update
I’m 27 weeks pregnant and it’s a boy!! I’m really excited and I can’t wait for my son’s arrival
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I spent this past weekend at my soon to be in-laws. In which it was only 15 minutes away from my parents place made me un-easy, but I was able to survive. We started off the weekend by arriving at my fiance’s parents place on friday night. We settled straight into his old room and watched A Christmas Carol as the family movie for that night. Nestled in by warm blankets and surronded by the ones that I love made me feel so sure that this is what I wanted. I awoke at 3:30 am to find myself starving…so I got up and decided that it would be nice to make some food. I ate dill pickles and drank three glasses of hot chocolate. Just to wake up my soon to be mother-in-law. She came out saw me out on the couch watching A Walk To Remember and laughed at what I was eating. She then intrigued me with stories of how that was exactly what she ate when she was pregnant with my fiance,James. I couldn’t help but smile. THat’s when my little nudger nudged. James’s mom felt my baby kick for the first time that night. And her and I fell asleep together on the couch. The rest of the weekend was spent with me helping cook, beating James’s older brother that came for a visit in video games, and getting my hair braided each day by his mom. I got beyond spoiled. I am now well rested and excited for the rest of my pregnancy. i absolutely ccan’t wait. And neither can my further in-laws or my fiance. He’s so jumpy. He wants this baby out now. But I think its mostly because he don’t wanna have sex while I’m pregnant. So he’s getting frustrated. I’ve tried helping him out..but he won’t allow anything. What do I do girls??? What do I do?
