Telling the parents, at 21…

I am 21 and 9 weeks pregnant. I live with my parents but am moving out this summer (reguardless of pregnancy). In the mean time I am deathly afraid to tell my mother. My extended family is already starting to know, so I neeed to tell her soon. I have had one scare and one previous pregnancy. The scare in 05, i was 19. I found out I was pregnant and we told her, then all I remember was being in the office with my grandmother, mother, and my fiance (the father). I went to get the "A" and they saw there was nothing there. But SHE all but forced me into this choice. My first actual pregnancy last year I made the choice/mistake to medically abort. That left me SO emotionally drained and utterly depressed. I WILL NOT do that again and my fiance will not let me. Last time I pleaded with him to change our minds, I wanted him to give me an out. This time around he is out of school and into a computer job, and I will be finished in June. I am still so afraid we won’t have enough money. But where the family falls out I have the most amazing friends that are helping with open arms.

In the end I am just scared she will tell me I should get an "A", and she will MAKE SURE to remind me at every point that I am making a mistake/desicion. I don’t want to hear what she has to say, but I guess I have to. 🙁
At this point I’m not sure either of my parents will be invited to our wedding.

Help, i need your opinions and advice…..

xxSuzyxx