Some-one Help Me Please!

girl don’t let ne one pressure u into an abortion, it’s ur body and ur baby!..do what u want!…what u need to do is find a trusted adult u can tell first and have them help u/go with u to tell the rest of u family (if u are really that scared to tell them)….and screw the dad, if can’t handle it then he shouldn’t have been having sex in the first place, because there’s always the chance of getting preg when u have sex!!!…good luck!

Hey,

I was once in the same situation as you expect i was 17 i didnt think that my family would understand but my mum did and helpt me throw what was the hardest time in life so far….. the father told me to get an abortion his parents both wanted me to as well…. I was stuck in my own world…. it felt like there was no way out, no one to turn too.

I was scared! my bf at the time told me he wouldnt love me the same way if i had the child and he didnt know if he wanted to be with me if i had the child……So i had an abortion But the father isnt around still so all his promises to hang around after the abortion were just empty lies.

Having an abortion was the worst thing i had ever done in my life still to this day i wonder what my beautiful daughter would look like an how she would be growing…..

What im trying to say to you is make sure this decision is yours an yours alone don’t let some guy make you get an abortion because you think he may not be around But make sure you are prepard to raise this child alone if you keep this baby.

Hope this helps!!!Goodluck and keep us posted

Hey Chrissy, my names Anna I’m 15 and 36 weeks pregnant with a little boy. I found out I was pregnant when I was 5 months and 1 week, I had gotten the deprovera shot but was pregnant before so I had no reason to suspect I was pregnant, I found out by accident pretty much. I went to a regular doctor appointment and then remembered me and boyfriend that it was a good idea I get a pregnancy test, so if I was pregnant it would be only a couple weeks. Wrong. The test came back positive and my doctor, upon examining me felt a good four month lump in my belly. I was beside myself, when I went outside my mom wasn’t in the car but when she got there she asked me what was wrong and i said I was pregnant. Four months at least. … She was more excited than me I’ll tell you that much. Then I had to tell Daddy who lives with us when he got home from work and I was really scared because I thought he would be angry, or leave me. He took it well and said that we’d get through this. I was scared to tell the rest of the family, especially my Dad I thought he would lose it but I was wrong, he was excited and even said "what a wonderful thing". I was SO scared! I had to go to the hospital to find out how far long I was and I couldn’t look at the Ultra sound, i was so upset. I was five months and 1 week. The doctor said I had three options. Abortion, Adoption or keeping the baby. I wanted an abortion because I was so scared but first I had to know…was my baby healthy? Perfectly, she said. I was now left with the decision to kill a perfectly healthy, beautiful baby that could at this point, feel. I decided I couldn’t do it so my next choice was adoption or keeping him. I had to talk to my boyfriend and tell him I wouldn’t get an abortion, this was really scary because I love him so much and didn’t want him to leave me or be mad. He said, I don’t want the baby to be put up for adoption. and then he said: So we’re having a baby? and here I am 8 months and almost ready to hold my son Odin in my arms finally. I got a 3d ultrasound and couldn’t believe what I saw, a beautiful living baby inside of me, protected by me. I love feeling him kick and move around in me, I write him letters and prepare his clothes and everything. I can’t imagine how my life would be if I decided to kill him. It scares me. Sometimes I wish that I had waited a little while so I could have little Odin when I was older but he kept himself a secret for FIVE MONTHS! thats gotta mean something. Anyways, what I’m trying to say is BE BRAVE GIRL because you don’t know what you’re destroying and it could be the biggest mistake of your life. Your parents may be upset, your boyfriend may be upset but your BABY will ALWAYS love you and be so happy and thankful that you are there Momma. Think of all the poopy diapers, wakeful nights, scratched up knees and runny noses you’ll miss out on…It’s too good to give up, give life to your baby for you, give life to your baby for him or her. In the long run, you guys will make it through this and it will be ok. Good luck, I am always here if you need me.
Lots of love,
Anna