So confused

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      Hello everyone…i had sex a week after my last period (May21) and now my period is two weeks late. I tested a week ago and it was negative. My stomach is constantly hurting now and im very nauseous and dizzy. I also have some back pains. The guy that i was with he got his ex pregnant twice (she had two abortions) and now the girl that he is with now is 3 months pregnant. We didn’t use protection and i don’t know what to do now. I’m only 17 turning 18 in two months and my sister-in-law just found out that she is pregnant and i don’t want to take away the excitement from her. But i don’t know if i am or not. I feel like it and i know what a pregnant girl goes through because my best friend is pregnant and is going to be induced on monday. Another reason why im kinda scared is because i don’t want anybody to know that me and that guy had sex because it would just be a huge drama thing between me and my friends and my now boyfriend. Im not scared about being pregnant or going through this pregnancy scare because i have gone through a pregnancy scare before more than a year ago. And i do know if i am pregnant than i would keep the baby, i know that they guy that im with now would help me out because he is just the sweetest guy ever and very understanding, well at least i hope that he’ll stay and help me out if i am.


        Hey.. read your story and when i first found out i was pregnant i took a pregnancy test and it showed up negative, i took another pregnancy test and it showed up positve.. maybe you should take another pregnancy test just to make sure. and still if that one shows negative go to the doctors if you still feel you are pregnant just to ease your mind.. even if your sister is pregnant i think if you want to keep this baby you should and she will understand also.. i dont think it will take the exitement away it will just bring more. your boyfriend now seems like a nice and understand person also, so once you find out you are pregnant and want to keep it you should ask him if he agrees on keeping the baby 😀 xx


          Well about the sister-in-law deal, it may come on to her at first, unfair or your lying to get the attention she once had to herself. But before she is even 3 months, and you are pregnant, both of you will be glad to have someone going through the same experiences. You can ask them if anything you think is unusual is happing to her too. Plus, she will be the only one who totaly understands you when you complain of heartburn. Use you two as being pregnant at the same time a blessing. I was 3 months pregnant by myself, I felt so out of place! But then my best friend discovered she was pregnant also! And we both had girls! It was great having someone to talk to! Oh…&& not to mention get fat with!:P

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