SO confused

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      Any advice would certainly be appreciated.

      I am 26, and pregnant by someone everyone has told me is not good for me, but I loved him and I would not listen. I wanted to be someone so bad that I just didn’t care. He has a 4 year old child and does not want another one. He is worried that the other mother will reduce his time with her. He is worried what his family thinks and on and on and on. Basically, he told me that if I decide to have this baby that I will be on my own. He will support it when the time comes, but he will NOT be there for me bc/ he doesn’t know how HE will deal with it all.
      I am about 8 to 9 weeks pregnant and time is escaping me. He wants me to have an abortion so all this goes away. For me, I see it the same way. Bc/ keeping this baby would be a long horrible road to experience with him. I have a feeling he will not be able to handle this. I am scared. In one way I would love to have this child. But, I am so incredibly confused.

      Please help.


        This is my own opinion, so don’t take it to as "bad"…. NEVER CHOOSE A MAN OVER YOU BABY!!! YOUR OWN FLESH AND BLOOD… That baby is a blessing from God, and if there is a will, there is a way. As the old saying goes, "It takes a village to raise a child." So if he doesn’t want to be involved, don’t let him be. He is missing out on a WONDERFUL experience. But if you have anything you want to ever talk about, just email me. Good Luck and keep us posted.


          i cant imagine the way you are feeling. i do believe that he is not the one for you and if u do have the baby do not let him be in your childs life . if he doesnt want anything to do with her now and why later ? thats like you giving your child up for adoption and a couple of years later decide that you want her back. it’s too late! let him deal with his problems himself and this child is his respnsiblity and if he cant handle it then he’s not a man.

          GOOD LUCK :kiss:

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