Pregnant and 15… help

Hey hon…I know EXACTLY how you feel. I got pregnant at 16 and my father asked me to have an abortion. My mother was really supportive thank goodness. Abortion never entered my mind. My daughter is now going to be 14 this year, and every time I look at her I am so thankful I didnt. I dropped out of school, but went back and got my GED and am now going to community college getting a nursing degree. I hope you mom is working with you on this. Family is a great sense of support. As far as the father, if he keeps asking you to get an abortion tell him he can either be part of your and the babies life or not. If he really cares about you he’ll stay. If not your better off, as much as you probably dont believe it. I am married now and have a son, and my husband treats my kids like they were his own.If you EVER need anyone to talk to you can email me at duckybelle@yahoo.com. Good luck hun!

🙂 girl me and u are pretty much goin through the same thing then
i found out that i was, just about a week ago and im 15 too i didnt kno what i was gonna do, how i was gonna tell my mom, if the father was gonna be there, if i was gonna be able to support it. but finally i told my mom she was pissed but i kno shes there for me we talked it over and i made her understand that i did this, it was my responsibility, she finally accepted it and now im fine the best advice to give u is exactly what others are telling me……keep ur head up, be strong, accept what u did……u should really look at this as a blessing its kool u kno i already picked out a name if its a girl i want it to be carmen renee’ hopefully the daddy of ur baby will come around cause mine didnt so good luck to u
a friend wrote a note to me and im gonna let u read it lets just say it made me cry and stronger (that sounds korny) but hopefully it will work for u to and help u out
~GODS SPECIAL GIFT~
every female is scared of being a bad mom.
every girl feels she will fail her child.
but when u find out for sure, and u can feel that little child inside u
you become so protective
you want nothing to hurt that unborn baby
everything happens for a reason
GOD probably put that child in you to show you how to care and love it

well i hope that helps and if u need anybody to talk to at all dont be afraid to talk to me ok
*always*
virginia

Hey girl, I know how you are feeling. I am fifteen right now and about 8 months pregnant. This April my son will be here any day. When I found out that I was pregnant, or when i thought that I could be, was one night when i snuck out to see my boyfriend and he asked if i thought i could be… Pregnant. Well I was kind of confused because, no that never even crossed my mind. but then after awhile I started freaking out about it and haveing these dreams that I was. so I got 20 dollers from my mom one weekend and had my friend go out to the store and pick me up a pregnancy test that was at least 98% accurate. When she did we went into the movie theater where she worked and took the test… at frist it was just one line and that ment "no", so i took it out of my friends hand and about threw it away… But when I grabed it she told me to hold on, slowly the second line came, my heart just felt like it was shuved down my throat. All I kept saying was, no.. this has to be wrong! (it was only 99% accurate) so a few weeks later i got more money and bought another test, that well ended up positive also. I didnt know how to tell my boyfriend.. I wasnt even aloud to be WITH him in the first place, and now i was pregnant with his child. Later that day, i seen him walking to his cousins house, so i ran after him to tell him the news, he said, well he didnt really have to say anything i could see it in his eyes that he was scared. him and i went to the community schools benches because that hid us from the public, and from the police. All I thought i could say was Sorry, I felt as if it were my fault. And he said sorry back and gave me a hug, then he said that he mise well just start gitting into trouble again because hes going to prison anyway now. Yeah, something you just want to hear… :angry: I told him that the test could be wrong. and that i will go to the health dep. tomarrow, when i did the woman took me into a seprate room, asked me my age, and asked if i was willing to be a mother. I was pregnant, and there was no turning back. When my mom found out, she said i wasnt having the baby and that i had to get an abortion, that didnt even cross my mind (like you said) to me I think its like killing someONE who never asked to be borne. and thats not right. But here i am rambling.. I kinda just wanted to tell you that if i can be 8 months pregnant and feel like its okay, and not dred over the fact, then you also can be happy at 8 months. Right know, I’m aloud to be with my boyfriend and I get along with my family more then i have ever… and even though i have lost alot of my friends, including the one who bought the tests for me, I still have my family My boyfriends family my two great friends and God. I thought he was angry at me for a long time, but really, he has a reason for all of us pregnant teenage girls, and we will some day relize why. Dont give up on anything esspesoly school, your child is depending on you, and will look up to you. I love you! and so does your child. 🙂 and do me a favor… tell your baby i said Hi, when you see him;/her. Love always Magen and if you wanna email me please dont be scared to! my email is magen_boo_07@hotmail.com

im 15 and i think im pregnant..the reason im replying is because were both 15 i really need support right now…we can talk get back to me..

hey, i’m 16 years old. and i think i might be pregnant…. i’m afraid to go buy a test… my boyfriend calls me about everyday asking me if i’ve started my period yet because he’s really worried about it…. i keep telling him "not yet, but don’t worry" i tell him that to keep him calm, but i’m really getting worried, my period was supposed to start around the 27th, and it’s the 31st and still nothing…. i dont know what to do…. i’m getting really scared….