Don’t be embarrassed at all. Maybe mostly women come on the site, but I know a lot of guys do too and that a guy voice is always good. Also, you are good to your girlfriend to seek advice. I am from the states, but there is a website http://www.HeartBeatInternational.org, that can help you find local help in India. Is it okay if I think there’s Christian founding for the groups, but they will help you no matter who you are? Also, it is hard for most people to tell their parents…and a lot of people have had experience doing this, so hear what they’ve had to say. It may be the hardest thing in the world, but often after the initial shock or anger, you find they are just as scared as you and just don’t know how to react. I don’t know your parents personally though, so continue to seek advice on how to handle that. Good luck and you’re in my prayers!