please help me .. x

Hi there sweety,
Take a deep breath and relax… Stress can make you feel things that aren’t aren’t always there and sometimes pregnancy symptoms can just be pms. When you have unprotected sex there’s always a chance of falling pregnant. Take another hpt and if it’s neg and you’re still late then get a blood test. You can worry about telling your bf and parents after you’ve found out for sure. Your parents might be a bit disappointed, but they love you and they’ll support you no matter what. And if your bf doesn’t stick around and support you and a baby that was created in love, then quite honestly he doesn’t deserve you. Being a daddy takes alot more than biology.
Best of luck and pls give us an update when you’ve found out what’s up.
Prayers and positive thoughts,
Evangeline xoxo

tracymom is totally right! Please listen to her!

honeybunch, please calm down. You’re not really alone. I’m thinking of you and praying for you. If you are pregnant, hold your hand to your tummy, you have a wonder going on! I will soon put up my ultrasound pic of my baby in my gallery. Your baby has a heartbeat by now. You are going through what God intended you to experience. Your body was made for this. There must be a little ecitement and joy in you, concentrate on that. It’s alright for you to b happy! Think, if you were alone on this earth, at your age, and you find you’re pregnant, would you be freaked out? I guss not. That’s because you have social pressures ideas, and ideals now that freak you out. Find an aunt or friend’s mother that you are close to. Speak to them. Ask them to speak to your parents for you or with you. This will calm the situation. You’re not quite so young, and not the first teenage pregnancy in the world! Try to buy a test. Speak to your priest/pastor, ask him to speak to your parents. THIS IS NOT A TAGEDY! THIS IS YOUR BABY! Don’t be scared, ITS NOT A HORRO FILM. Pregnancy is wonderful! Look at all the preggy and baby mags. Tose people are happy in there! Why are you not allowed to be? Babies are celebrated the world over, why must yours be frowned upon? I celebrate your baby! You should too. You are most capable. Just live every moment as it comes. Don’t think too far ahead. The future is most of the time not what you think it will be. For instance I read of a young pregnant girl who died with her baby in a car accident! Now that’s sad. A girl I know is depressed because her few week’s old baby died, and so did my sister’s friend’s unborn baby. She made it to 3 months. You are blessed – you are not BARREN. BARRENNESS IS A TRAGEDY! Live this day. See what happens. There was a girl on our campus, she fell pregnant out of wedlock and wore mini tops and minishorts for all to see her belly. She didn’t care! She celebrated her baby! Be like her – it takes the fun out of the gossip for others! Remember that in 9 months it will all be forgotten. And people will say “Did you see honeybunch’s baby, oh he’s too cute, “Did honeybunch have a boy or a girl?”, “It’s honeybunch’s baby’s first birthday tomorrow!”. And you’ll have pics of your parents smiling holding their beautiful new grandchild! And years from now you’ll all be dead, but your child will remember you! Don’t worry about school. You think and work better when you are pregnant. Think of when you’ll hold your baby for the first time. Oh so exciting. I was the best student at my school, passed with an A average. Got a bursary, studied chemistry…blah blah blah! But my greatest achievement and pride will always be my baby boy. You can take everything away, don’t take my baby boy. Because if you do, I will lose my mind. honeybunch, God is with you. Afterall he is creating the baby inside you. No one else’s opinion can compare to His…and he’s ready preparing a destiny for your child. LET LIFE PREVAIL!

It’s not wrong to feel happy about the fact that a baby might be growing inside you. Half of your genes: so that’s half of you down to the T! Is your parents okay with it? Don’t worry, big boobs are great! I don’t know if you should be having all those symptoms so early so you might be imagining some. Having a baby is really not that difficult. It’s more joy than anything else. What are you worried about specifically?
It would be wrong to think, “I want to kill this child…”, I would say. Be happy. It’s natural. Give way to the joy inside. Isn’t this what you dreamed about sectetly in your heart? Didn’t you play with baby dolls when you were younger? Your body was made for this and you’re perfectly healthy! An abortion will throw your body into confusion. It’s not natural. God did not intend for this! Pray. Tell God everything. Tell him exactly how you feel, give your burdens to him. In his Word he promises to take them from you. Right now he’s probably waiting for you to come to him with your problems. He will help you…just allow him in. Don’t think about other people right now. The natural reaction of a mother is to think of and protect her child. When and if you have your child you will know that you have undergone the greatest journey in your life. Just think, if you die at the end of this year, what do you want to leave behind? An abortion story…or your offsrping; a LIFE? A flesh testimony to your existence? And if you die in the next week, what would you have wanted your last decision to be? One of DEATH or one of LIFE. Leave a legacy of one who chose life, one who stood up against the world for her child. Be that brave woman that others testify of. Abortion is bravery, it’s cowardice. Create a testimony, a beautiful story, not a sad tale of how you killed your first child. You won’t always be 17! You won’t always be on school. You won’t always have parents to live under. Very soon you will be your own woman – Very Soon, believe me! Keep your baby, because you’ll regret it if you don’t. You’re not alone!