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      i may or not be pregnant i do not know as i always seem 2 think i am buh now i seen to be gettin greater symptons
      if i was to be idnt no wha to do? i no sounds pathetic and stupid buh i dnt.
      my b/f sed i wuld b ruining my life and have no career and he urges me for my sake hat i wuld have 2 get rid of the baby, i no doesnt sound nice buh ino for a fact he finkin of me.

      is it possible to continue with college and then university if baby?

      im 17 and currently in my first year of alevels i will continue to be a sixth former for next two year then go to university to do a 3 year course for midwifery…would i be able to cope?

      please need help just incase



        I think you can do it! i did my A-levels like a year and a half ago and though they aren’t easy. I know that, I know, That I know that you will be able to do this! If you take some time off to make a plan with friends and family then it would be easier, but you can do this! Don’t feel intimidated by the way things look. have the baby! you can make it!


          i think you can do it as well keep your baby n than you can def explain your sitution to young girls when you become a midwife pleanty of woman have babys n finish school good luck to you.


            I think you would be able to do it. As long as you have faith in yourself and you are willing to work hard you will be able to anything you want. It won’t be easy but as long as you work hard you can do it


              I’m positive that you can have both your baby AND a career. I’m not saying it will be easy, but you can do anything you set your mind to. Plus, all of us girls will always be here to talk when you need help or advice or just plain feel like you can’t do it.

              My mother was 17 when she became pregnant with me, and ended up not finishing highschool. But later on she went on to finish college, get a great job, and her and my dad (not the biological one, someone even better) are now in the process of starting their own business. It wasn’t easy, and it took a lot of hard work, but she did it. And you can too. I know it.

              You can do it girl! 🙂


                I think you can do it as long as your heart’s in it, and you sounds like your heart is in it! I had my son half a year before I graduated, and I still managed to go to university, so it’s not impossible!



                  If you are pregnant, it will be a shock and I know it’s not what you planned but please don’t get an abortion. Even though your boyfriend thinks it will wreck your life, it won’t at all but an abortion will wreck it. Read what some girls have posted on here regarding abortions and you’ll see that they want their babies back. As the years go by, you’ll always be thinking about what your son or daughter would be doing now if you kept them. Birthdays, Christmasses, their graduation. And when you’re old and grey and your children have their own families, you’ll look back and be so glad you kept them.
                  Loads of girls have children and still have great careers, but more importantly, you’ll have a child who will love you. No matter what your boyfriend or family say, you really should keep the baby. I bet deep down you know that. I hope all goes well.
                  you’re in my prayers

                  God bless


                    You sure can do it B)
                    You can do anything you put your mind to. And If you are going to have a baby, the baby will give you a greater reason and passion to complete your studies and help other young girls. 🙂

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