I would definitely make sure you and your husband are on the same page about things. It might be hard to wait, but no need for added stress if you can help it. Maybe you can write things down so you can just read your husband your thoughts and really get out what your thinking and how you feel without him interrupting. He still may not be for it in the end, but at least you can feel like you really got to share your heart and get your feelings about it all out on the table!