I’m a full time student that is pregnant! HELP!

Girl, I’m so sorry you’re having to go through all this… I know it must be very hard for you. But you can’t let other people determine your (and your baby’s) future. You have to make the decision that you feel is right for you. And if you can’t stand the thought of ending your baby’s life now… then I can only imagine how horribly you’ll feel after the fact. No one should have to carry that much guilt on their shoulders. There are other options… even if you feel that you don’t have the means to keep your baby, adoption could be considered. But also there is alot of help out there for young, single moms trying to make it with their little ones. And to answer your question about who would want to date a single mom? Actually I know several single moms and they still enjoy dating and hanging out with friends. Having a baby won’t completely end your social life.. it may just slow things down for a little while. I know it’s a very confusing scary time for you, but please listen to what your heart’s telling you. It may be hard, but love can work past sooo many obstacles. After all is said and done, you will be the one who has to look in the mirror and live with the decision you make. No one else will be as affected by this decision as you will. So, you do what YOU feel in your heart is right for you and your little one. I’m praying for you, that God will give you peace and guidance. I’m here to talk if you need someone. Good luck! and God bless. Love you!

hi,
im also in your situation. Im in my 2nd year of university hundreds of miles away from family but me and the father are together.

for my the biggest problem i have is distance. id want to move back home either which way i go.
ive talked to my mam and dad and my best friend and they are supportive of either which way i go.
i am swinging at the moment towards abortion because like you i have no finacial means to support myself, no property and id essentially be homeless if i carried on. im also in alot of debt and not just because of uni

however i do have a problem of if it has a heartbeat yet. my god daughter was born at 23wks and before she was born there was going to be an abortion which didnt happen. 4 weeks later out she popped and is now 3 and healthy and full of life.
i think my main issue is if i abort and its already gone so far could i be losing a baby.

you sounds like you think of it as a baby and not a lil bunch of cells and i feel like once its past the lil cell stage it is a fetous then a baby soo.

my coucilor person and doc said i should go with my gut instinct because either way is going to have its challenges and problems im going to have to face.

i hope this has helped u think of your options. im still thinking about mine as u can probs tell ^^ i have a scan on monday and blood tests to see how far i am and if i am only a few weeks gone which ithink i am then abortion is seeming like the option for me. but make sure you make the right decision for you. your family and friends will support you no matter what they say in the heat of the m oment now x

i wish u well

lucy