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BigHeart89
Ok so i’m 19 and have just found out that i’m pregnant… well I had big suspicions and have only just done a test and accepted the result… I’m going to be a mummy.
I’m excited dont get me wrong but when I told my boyfriend a few weeks ago he ended the relationship and now wants “Nothing to do with me or the baby” as he is “not a father” and “cant handle being a father”… He too is 19.
The thing I don’t understand is that the baby was totally planned. We planned to try for a baby. We tried for a baby. And about 2 weeks after we started trying he decided he didnt want to be a father anymore… Sorry dude but it was too late to decide that. hehehe.
So i’m due Late Dec. Got a scan next week to confirm my EDD (Due Date). Anyways theres NO WAY i’m having an abortion (like all his mates are trying to make me).
Meg11
Hey there BigHeart…I am very proud of you for being responsible enough to not go through with an abortion, I am also sorry that your boyfriend has decided not to support you. The hard thing is that sometimes things seem like a really good idea like having a baby together, maybe you both thought that it would be a good thing for your relationship but it turns out that he has the “freedom” to walk out the door and now you are left to be a mother on your own. Well you do not have to be alone here on Standupgirl, we have been there too and you have the better end of the deal to have this precious little life inside of you, just remember that on the hard days. I know that if he does not come around one of these days that someone much better will see your worth and beauty and Stand Up to be a father and a husband for you…I guess it is always better to wait until you are married to try to have a baby but for you right here and right now you are doing what is best in your circumstances and like I said before, you should be proud of yourself for making the right choice to be a mommy!! I am here anytime you need a friend or just want to talk…Lots of love…Meg
bernardette.x
Congratualations 🙂
sorry about your boyfriend, but hes the one thats gona miss out!!best of luck with the pregnancy and baby,
keep us up to date yeah?take care
Bernardette xmyangelsinheaven
Hello Bigheart,
You will find love and support here because your story is the story of thousands of young girls. If you read the posts on this site, you will find comfort knowing that many have walked this same path that you are faced with and have become wonderful little mothers. This baby was planned, this baby was loved before it was conceived, and this baby was meant for YOU!! Because you are courageous enough to accept the responsibility for your choice of being intimate with your boyfriend, you will experience the joy of an innocent life, and will be rewarded with a gentle love like no other. Your boyfriend may take some time to accept his role as the baby’s father, but you should continue to accept this life and be an example to him. In a quiet, steady and confident manner, you can show him how a mature young adult accepts life. You may actually help him come to realize that there’s no reason to run and be afraid.
If you need anything, please let us know. We’d love to share your pregnancy with you so keep in touch.
Blessings,
myangelsinheavenGangY
Hey!
I’m so sorry to hear about your boyfruend..I hate when someone runs away from responsibility.. But hey,you are going to be a mommy,a great one cause you stood up for the lil life inside of you in the very begining,so honey,congrats! I wish you a healthy&easy pregnancy!
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