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I don’t know what to do. I’m afraid that if I am my parents will send me to live with my grandma! I’m not worried about my boyfriend leaving me because I know that he is too caring to leave me. We discussed everything before we even kissed. The thing I’m worried about is how to tell my parents and how long am I supposed to wait before I can actually test to see if I am pregnant?
Post edited by: kisstheflame, at: 2005/11/01 04:31
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Well, first off are you gonna keep the baby? and if so, you need to take a test to find out if your rele pregnant. Im 16 and got pregnant at 15. (lost the baby) and I thought my mom wud kill me but she supported me. why dont you want to live with ur grandma? maybe ur boyfriend can move with you.
I was 15 when I had my son, and now I am 26. Please don’t take this the wrong way but you are worried about the wrong things right now. From your post you sound a little immature by saying that you and your boyfriends talked about sex or whatever before you "kissed" You make it seem like you and him have made plans like your both adults. What you should be thinking about is can I financialy support a baby, or are you going to have depend on your parents, are you going to stay in school? If you are pregnant your whole life is about to change in ways you can’t even think of right now. I don’t want to sound like I am preaching, but if I had to do it again I would have waited to have my son.
telling your parents is a scary thing. definately take the test first, and then just tell them, like ripping off a bandaid (corny as it may sound) the sooner you break the news the better. I thought that my parents ( and his) would be a lot more upset than they really were. But they were disappointed in us, and it was hard to get through that. Eventually they were excited for us, and now they love being grandparents! My daughter is three now, and I have two other children, too. I know it’s scary, and in a way, so is being a parent. It’s one of those "one-day-at-a-time" things.
Never forget that you’re not alone, even if it feels like it sometimes.
AmandaTake a test, and then tell your parents, it is important that they know. I found out i was pregnant when i was 14, I’ve just had my baby, 2months ago, and i went through the whole pregnancy without telling my parents. Now I regret not telling them, because of all the support they could have gave me. Being a teen mum is not as hard as some people make it sound, if u have support, and the best support you can get is from ure family. I’m now getting ready to go back to school again, all thanks to my parents. So do a test and tell them the GOOD NEWS, you never might know, they might be excited to be grandparents
kisstheflame, you can take a test four days before your period is actually due tho you have a better chance of getting a more accurate result if you wait until the day you are due to start your monthly or a day or two after.
Have you actually missed your period yet? You may be panicking over nothing.
If your monthly doesnt arrive take the test using first morning urine if you can. Its easier if you pee into a jar. Make sure you read the instructions throughly before dipping the stick.
If it turns out you’re not pregnant then you must get your birth control sorted to save another scare and to protect from disease.
Good luck!
~ Kelly, how on earth did you manage to keep your pregnancy a secret for the whole nine months? You must have been so scared. ((hugs))
babbycar
Hi kelly but how on earth did you ever keep this a secret from your parents for 9 months? where you living with them or someone eles? wow!!!!!!!!!!!
Also where you only 14 when you had it? Also where you scared? How was giving birth?babbycar wrote:
Hi kelly but how on earth did you ever keep this a secret from your parents for 9 months? where you living with them or someone eles? wow!!!!!!!!!!!
Also where you only 14 when you had it? Also where you scared? How was giving birth?hay im 15 and im 8 1/2 months pregnant the oe thing you should learn is that if you can have sex then you can have a baby please don’t get an abortion.i listen to people talk about me but most people are by my side and willing to help everything happens for a reason. 😉
smilingurl
Comment to the comment, i don’ think that she was immature to disscuss sex, before they even kissed. Premartial sex is premartial sex whether you are grown or 15. "like you were adults"? adults so wrong just like in this situation. I a glade that mentioned hopefully the consquences or whatever, so it can already be set out on the table, if something like this happens. I disagree with the negative comment, and you were preaching! and to the 15 year old girl, if you are not pregnant, be careful, k, hun? i really don’t want to be pregnant if you don’t have to. I truly care about all of the wonderful girls on this website, even though i don’t know you all. I don’t have any kids, yet, and i kinda like life that right now, so if you aren’t enjoy your life too. If you are, i hope you have read some of these abortionstories and don’t have to go through it. May be you should learn from what those other beutiful girls had to go through. I AM ON THIS SITE 2 A DAY!If you ever wana talk, i m smilingurl
i know you didnt ask me but giving birth was THE EASIEST part of being pregnant!!!!!! of course my blood pressure kept dropping so i was unconsiouss for most of it and in a fog when i was awake but really, the worst part is the next week when you hurt to sit, hurt to stand, hurt to do anything for longer than 3 minutes!
Hello. So were you pregnant? And if so, what are your intentions?
🙂 I just found out that I’am four weeks pregnant Idid’t even feel any simptoms until I found out and then I started gitting really fatigued every evening… two tests said I was pregnant… then I started clotting and had some heavy bleeding for a day or so I keep thinking I miscarried but I still have some hope. I want a baby and I have never thought about abortion for one minute… So no matter what happens don’t freak out and think that is your only way out people might try to put pressure on u but just think that u have something that is your own flesh and blood growing inside of you… how could u abort that. my whole family is excited about me being pregnant… and they keep telling me that when I see my baby with my own eyes face to face…. ot will all be worth it!
hang in there and stay strong!!!Hi im ashley! Yeh im 16 and i think im pregnant … its kinda hard thinking bout it day to day wondering! The guy im pregnant by is a reall jerk and i dont want him to have really nothing to do with it and now hes threatning me that hes gonna take it way! I cry about it every night … knowing my dad is like gonna hate me pretty much and my mom is gonna be very upset … all i have to say is im EXTREMELY scared right now and dont know what to do!!! :S
Hi I know what you were going through. I have been there, and after i took the test I had plans to tell my mom but the guy told me not to and had his friend and was supposed to be my best friend tell me not to tell my mom that they would help me in anyway and if i did they would all go to jail. BLAH BLAH BLAH NEVER wait always be honest with your mom. She may be disapointed and hurt but I promise it will get better. If you need anything please let me know I will talk to you and help you. I am sorry that you are so young and are dealing with this.
here for you,
Amandai am praying for you, definitely. The main thing that you should be concern about is that precious child inside. Yea he’s threatin you and that’s not good to feel scared or fear for your baby’s safety or yours, but i can bet you that scared or not you will not allow anyone to put your child in danger. You are strong, i want to keep in touch as much as i can. Don’t let his words control you.
I’m in the exact same boat as you are! i’m also 15 and possibly pregnant. i’m going to get a few home pregnancy tests tomorrow so i’ll find out for sure. i’m 2 weeks late, which is sometimes usual, but i’ve been having these weird feelings in my abdomen, i can smell really well, i’m bloated, i gained a few pounds, my breasts are tender, i’m constantly tired and hungry… the usual symptoms. i’m scared to tell my parents, but even more scared to tell my older sister. she will be so hurt and disappointed. i know that i would never have an abortion and my boyfriend says he’ll stay with me the whole way and even marry me when we’re old enough. we’ve been together for over a year now and i know he won’t let me be alone.
hey well have you told your parents yet? if so what did they do? and well how is it going B)
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