If ur thinkin of abortion…

personally i would not and could not go through with an abortion, i’m not sayin i wouldn’t consider it in hard situations though (i suppose everyone does in a hard situation, the actual goin through withit part is different) and i am not in anyway judging ANYONE who has had one, i think it’s a very personal desision, and not an easy one.

however, although this is not my story, i am linked into it, and i am very VERY upset by it. i just want to let people see the consequences of a regretted abortion.

my very best friend, who has been like my sister from before i can remember got pregnant a few months back, that is how i found this site (well we found it together), however after everything we talked and read about, she still thought abortion was best for her, her bf mentally abused her and they wer on the edge of breaking up, she had just gotten onto a university course she had always worked hard for etc etc, but still she didnt REALLY want to have the abortion she just believed it was best. so she had it, and even i believed she was ok with her desision after a couple of months, she never mentioned it and she seemed sooo happy with her new bf (which she is) and i began to believe she had, not forgotten it, but moved on, if that makes sense.

so last night was new years eve, we went out clubbing and she just broke down, i managed to get her away from everyone and we went into the toilets. she had seen her baby’s dad there…and her baby was supposed to have been born this month sumtime. she was in a mess, emotionally, and she is one of the strongest people i know. i tried to be a good support. told her that even if she regretted her desision she can at least learn from it and make her life worth while after something like that, which is true she should and she can, and so can everyone else who has been through the same thing.

she kept cryin and sayin she had killed her first child and that it would always be her first child and she cant have it back. i had no idea how to respond to this. but its heartbreakin to see that and i just wanted to say that if u are considerin abortion if ur having any doubts at all DONT DO IT, it will haunt u forever.

i was in a position i never want to be in again last night and i know my friend was. i love her to pieces and ppl shouldnt go thru that.