i want, he doesn’t

i am 28, my husband to be, 38. he is divorced (and has a pre-teen) , this is my first (and last) marriage.
i want kids, he says he doesn’t another child. he was hurt emotionally in first marriage, and missed alot of time/activities/moments with his daughter.

i understand the fears, but how can i make him see what he missed (which is alot), i too will miss (almost more) if we do not have a child of our own. he also fears of being too old with a new child.

thanks,
hopeful