I need someones help

hey! hi u doin as u can see my name is zeta and from wat i see i think u are pregnant. especially if ur test came back positive. u can email me bacck if u like. iight holla @ me

Princess
It sounds to me like you are pregnant. What you need to do is get yourself to the doctor. And sweetheart do not let that baby go. You bring that child into the world because I promise you if you decide to abort it will be a dicision you wil regret for the rest of your life. If you have any questions please ask I would like to help you in anyway that I can.
God bless you
jess

Hey there, listen for number 1 go to the doctor. I am 14 years old, i am not pregnant i have never had sex but i am doing a report about teen pregnancy i looked up sites and came to this one. So listen i know a little about this subject. For one you need to go to the doctors find out if you are. Number 2 tell your parents and boyfriend. Maybe they will be upset but in time they will understand. If you need to ever talk i’m there for you. I will be your friend.. Just trust your family and you will be fine.. Good Luck and follow your heart, And know that i’ll pray for you…

Hey i had read your letter and whats crazy was that i as in that same position. Me and my boyfriend never used protetion either. I am only 15 and 3 months pregnant belive the test you are pregnant. But i am going to turn 16 this month. But I hope you make the right decision. Just to let you know I am keeping my baby. Good luck and i send you my blessings.

I am pretty sure u are pregnant!! I went thru the same thing i got tested 3 times and still thought the test were wrong now im 6 mo pregnant i guess like most teen gurls u r in a stage of denile (hope i spelt that right) but i think it is normal . My advice is to go to a local clinic get tested and if ur pregnant u should either tell ur parents and botfriend right away or if u r waiting for the right time go to a store like H.E.B or Wal-Mart or even Walgreens and get some prenantal vitamins so ur baby will be healthy u need to let ur parents no asap so u can see a doctor. Good Luck!! 😉

Hi!!

The first thing you need to do is find out for sure — Look in the Yellow pages under pregnancy for a Compass Care Pregnancy center — they are a great resource center, they will do a pregnancy test for you and give you all sorts of information and options — just don’t do anything without giving it lots of thought–abortion is NOT the only option, and in fact it is a business–they want your money–, so first go to a center that doesn’t promote abortion to get good information; you can always choose that option, but once it’s over, it’s OVER. Then, if you are, tell an adult you feel comfortable with — preferably your parents, but if not, take the family friend/relative with you to tell your parents–it sometimes makes it easier to have another person who’s had a chance to digest the news. But I can tell you, babies are a BLESSING!! There are a lot of people who can’t get pregnant (I was one of them for almost 3 years–I just found out I am pregnant — this is my 4th!!) I had my first baby at 19, then another at 21, and went on to get a college degree and have a career as a broadcast journalist–I left my job to stay home with my now 2-1/2 year old–and we’ve been trying to have another one since. There is no greater joy than a child brings into your life. I grew up with my older kids, and now I’m enjoying my younger baby, and my older kids are learning how much fun–and work– a baby can be. There will be times you feel you can’t handle things, but U CAN!! You’ll just need to give yourself a break every now and then, and there are lots of support groups around, or your family can be a great source of support. A baby is a joy, and will become the center of your life–in fact, you’ll even wonder how you could ever have lived without her!!

My sister got pregnant at 16, had the baby at 17, and is now still married to the father, 26 years later!! She’s had 3 children, but tragically, one died in infancy, and believe me, she would give anything to have the baby back–so don’t make any rash decisions–I haven’t yet met anyone who hasn’t regretted an abortion (or losing an infant).

I hope this helps–if you’re scared that’s normal, but you can overcome!! God LOVES YOU and your little baby and has a plan for your lfe–He will never put more on you than you can handle–that is a PROMISE!!

If you want to talk, feel free to email me at wanda_jb@yahoo.com.

God Bless You!! I will pray for you!!

Wanda

i’m just gonna tell you…. i’am now 20 yrs old….i have TWO kids…1…. and 3….do the math. i had my first daughter at age 16….i ended up getting married….he did not love our child…i divorced him…for all the right reasons. my parents were incredible….they helped me out so much…..i ended up getting engaged a while later…we split up. one night…he came over…and OOPS.. crap! big problem…..i now have two daughters…. i had no money and noone to help…i had looked in to adoption…i wanted my children to have what i could not give them….i talked to my parents about it…and we all decided it would be best to give them the girls….i still suffer to this day..i miss them more than anything….i always wanted to be the perfect mother…i. felt like a failure…then i realized i am not a failure….i gave them the most important thing…A "mommy and a Daddy" they are beautiful and happy….i still see them all the time…they call me mommy as well as my mom….they do not know their fathers…because the dads abandoned them…and don’t want anything to do with them..

In my opinion you more than likely are pregnant. you need to talk to your parents…no screamin no shouting…whats done is done…now you all need to figure out what is best for this Baby…not for you…or for yours, or the fathers parents….For this CHILD..who did not choose to come into this world….Help this baby….. i’ll think of you and your child always…. love ….faith.

Hey Kristin (and anyone else who’s pregnant and scared!),
Just wanted to give you a word of encouragement. You know the saying, "Hindsight is 20/20?" Well, since you asked for advice, I’ll give you the benefit of my experience as a formerly unwed teenage mother. I was 17 and scared to death. My bf didn’t want the baby. I didn’t wanna tell my parents knowing they would totally freak out. So I went to Planned Parenthood. Well, I WAS pregnant and just started crying right there. A counselor took me in a room and told me I was too smart to have a baby at this age. I had my whole life in front of me, my parents would be so disappointed, and I wouldn’t be able to finish school (it was the summer b4 my senior year). She went on and on and everything she said was really true. Then she told me I could easily take care of the problem, and they could do it the following Tuesday. That was my easy way out – an abortion. My bf was all for it and scrambled to get the money. But all weekend I had this nagging feeling and I finally realized I couldn’t go through with it! I told my mom, and she went ballistic. Later my Dad came home (drunk – so I should have waited till the next morning, but didn’t)… he also went ballistic and called me every name in the book. The next day my parents told me my choices were either to have an abortion or go live with my aunt and adopt the baby. But I figured out a third choice. I ran away with my bf, got married, and had the baby. My senior year, I finished my course work and got my diploma. Things were really difficult with my parents for awhile. But when my son was born, they became pretty good grandparents, and our relationship mended. The marriage didn’t work out, and I had to live with my parents for awhile. I saved money – worked and took some classes… my mom babysat my son. I could have continued like that and eventually had a good job teaching or sticking with the job I had fallen into = a librarian in the law division of a major oil company (premium benefits). But I met a really responsible, loving, well rounded man who liked my son – I fell in love, and after three years of dating, we married when my son was six. We’ve been married 23 years now, and have two more children (girls). Most of the 23 years have been great, but I think at about the seven year mark we "fell out of love" and considered divorce. But we worked it out, and I am so happy we stuck with it! Now I know love is a choice – not a feeling. So I chose to have my crisis baby, and he’s 30 now and called me on Mother’s Day… he’s planting flowers and working in the yard today! Raising him was tough sometimes, but so worth it. I tried to give my kids the best of my self. Growing up with alcoholic parents gave me incentive to do better by my kids. And that made ME a better person.
I’ve had three friends and one sister have abortions. All four had medical problems (one ended up in ER the day after her abortion with a massive infection… they didn’t get all the baby out! My sister’s uterus was punctured. Neither could get pregnant later when they wanted to, and my sister got breast cancer (1st person in family to ever have cancer) and had a double mastectomy (now research is showing that abortions are linked to breast cancer….funny – the AMA is squelching that info, but it can be verified.) ALL four still deeply regret their abortions! They still think about their children all the time and wonder what they would be like today.
Some pregnancy tests are better than others for early detection…. just read the box or ask a pharmacist to help you. And if its negative, wait a week or few days and test again. Crisis pregnancy centers are very good about hooking you up with all kinds of help and resources!
I’ll pray for you Kristin! I hope you choose life. Adoption is a loving option and may be the best thing for your situation. My niece gave her child up for adoption, (open) and still gets a Christmas card with pictures and stories every year….its been 10 years. My sister adopted two kids (the one who had an abortion) and I can’t imagine our family without those precious two!

With love and prayers,
Barbara

I have been in your shoes. I was 19 when I got pregnant and it was the scariest moment of my life. I put off taking a test for a whole month – knowing it was going to be positive. My suggestion would be to go ahead and take it so you can begin the prenatal care you and the baby need. Have a friend there with you that supports you. Having your best friend there can help you alot!