i lost my baby on the 20th of October 2009, i just needed to tell someone how extremely sad i am! everyone tells you that it will get better, or you will have more children, or that’s just the way things go, that is NOT what i want to hear! it feels like my heart was ripped out of my chest, i feel empty and alone! i want to mourn my child but have no grave no real connection, just the knowing that my baby was inside me and i knew he was there and i loved him, how do i recover? how do i mourn a miscarriage? please give advise?