I dont know what to do

Take a deep breath, and relax. If your boyfriend is with you after an abortion, may I ask…how does he feel about that now? If you are pregnant….would he want to support you in carrying the baby? Breakthrough in contraception happens more times than expected. That’s what most people don’t understand. But if you’re pregnant…it’s too late to think about that now. But you shouldn’t continue to take the pills as they may harm the unborn fetus during the baby’s fragile development. To be absolutely safe as well, if you don’t want to conceive….you shouldn’t be having sex from this moment on with your boyfriend. Chances of pregnancy are high even with the best efforts. You may not be pregnant right now….your just spotting, but you could get pregnant tomorrow or the next day. Until you show up late for your period and test, you won’t know for sure. We can guess all we want, but resort to the facts. Blood test’s are extremely accurate so I wouldn’t waste time on home test.

I will not be disrespectful towards your father, but I have a strong oppinion against what he believes he was “good about the first time.” Supporting someone in the decision to kill an innocent baby inside a mothers body will never be justified by any reasons!!!! You cannot kill, and turn your back on that go on with your life with a healthy concience. It is wrong….and I hear the sadness in your words. I pray for your healing with the loss of your first baby to abortion. You were lead to believe that abortion was the answer and then you could go back to your normal life….that wasn’t the case was it? We cannot hide from our sins. We can only acknowledge them as wrong and ask for forgivness…..but the key is to not make the same mistakes. We have to amend our lives!! If your father will not support you in giving this baby life, you can look to other family members for support. A cousin, aunt, Grandmother or older brother or sister who is living on their own. Anyone whom you may know that is supportive and loving I’m sure will offer you some assistance. Your father may be angry and yell, but just remember. You’re human and we all make mistakes. But we are entitled to compassion and forgivness….If you are concerned about your physical safety then having someone with you when you tell him may be a good idea. Tell your supportive family member or friend your fears if you have any concerning your fathers reaction and ask them to go with you. You can also call, 1800-395-HELP, for information about where you can get free testing in your area. It’s FREE and confidential and they have counseling available to help you make healthy decisions about your baby. NOT ABORTION!! Try everything possible to save this baby. Accepting life, after an abortion is a wonderful form of healing and opens up the path for you to become closer to God again where you were seperated before.

You seem to very worried about this and scared about the consequences…..doesn’t that tell you something about the risk you’re taking with your life….an unborn baby, and your future. So many questions to be answered, so many arrangements….so much anxiety with an unplanned pregnancy as a teen. Wanting to love and have a family is not sinful…..but there is an easier way.

If you are not pregnant may I suggest you make healthier choices in the future?
Consider how you’re feeling this very minute, and use this as a reminder of what you truly do not want to go through until you and your boyfriend are married.

I will pray for you. Please stay in touch and let us know how we can help.

God bless,
myangelsinheaven