Help meeee.

So my question would be, are you sexually active with him, if not are you engaging in oral sex? If yes to either of these and you do not want to be doing these things then you need to tell your parents if he is pressuring you into doing this stuff, I think you have a good goal to be married before you do this stuff, do not be pressured into staying with him just because your parents want you two to get married, once you are married then it is a bad thing to get a divorce unless you are being physically cheated on or physically abused but it is better to not get married than to eventually get divorced…if you want to leave him then you need to do that, you should not stay with a boyfriend who is pressuring you to do things you don’t want, he is not respecting your body…talk to your parents, let them help you out…Love Meg

You are going to have to face reality at some point, what you are dealing with is co dependency, You are afraid to be alone therefore you are making yourself willing to stay with someone you do not want to be with just so you are not alone, this is very unhealthy and you should really talk to someone about this, preferably someone who knows you well like your mom or another relative you spend a lot of time with, I had a twinge of this on and off in my life and I stayed in abusive relationships and allowed myself to be treated badly just because I was afraid of being alone, one of those relationships ended in pregnancy and then I stayed with him longer because I was terrified of having a baby on my own, he never hit me but he was very controlling and mean and verbally and emotionally abusive, he had me convinced that I would starve on the street without him, you are headed for the same situation if you stay in a relationship that you don’t want to be in, he may not abuse you but you will still suffer the same feelings because you will feel trapped and hopeless, you need to get some counseling and find out why you are codependent, in the meantime take some time to evaluate the relationship, the pros and the cons….Love Meg

well thats mi story bt im only 14 and mi baby father is 17 and he told me to get an aboration mi mam,grandma,and other people.mi mama tryna take me to the aboration place rite nw bt just mad me do it one time bt im not doin it any more i made myself a promise bt ur nine monhs so u just should live ur life up and take care of ur babby at means and stay with the father no matta what just do it all fo the baby if not for u