i’m sry to hear that he died. you should really talk to your mom so she can take you to the doctor. she needs to know. the sooner the better. one thing that would probably upset her the most is if you wait too long before telling her. because she gets the shock of finding out your pregnant, as well as losing a ton of trust in you for lying to her by keeping your pregnancy from her. in addition, there’s a lot of health risks, espedcially since you are so young. i wish you the best, and i hope everything turns out well.