Baby came way too early

Yesterday morning I woke up with major cramps, around 7:30 am. I waited it out till bout 930 and then headed to the hospital to hopefully hear " it’s nothing", only to find out that I am already 10 cm dilated and the baby is breeched and so a c-section is ultimately the only option we have. I had the bbay by 10:55. I didn’t get to see her until about 8 pm later that night since I was asleep during surgery and she needed to be taken away from me when she was born. She was transferred to another hospital and today I am transferred to the same hospital and all I hear is how very sick she is and how her chances of survival are little. Chances of normality are very low and I am in a terrible situation. I lost my mother-in-law on sunday in a car crash and her husband was taken off life support on wed and the baby was born on thursday. I have no idea how so much could happen in so little time. Has anyone gone through the same situation? They have no idea what brought on labor except stress possibly because I had a perfect pregnancy with no trauma to my belly, no medication and absloutely no drugs/alcohol and smoking. I have no support and I’m in a bad state. Any words of comfort would be greatly apprectiated.