I have a 16 year old daughter who my husband and i love dearly. She speaks to us terrible. she will not take any instruction about her life. What do I do ? Jesus has waited on be to be done acting like a fool enough.I guess I will have to do the same. I just hope she knows if she still acts this way when she is 18 she will not be living with our (her) family. In that case she should start making plans for her future which I do not think she is doing. Anyway I know she will come back to us one day and we will love her still.