I just wanna thank everyone for posting their stories. I am a young girl who always dreamed of being a parent but, of course when the time was right. I could always picture a perfect picture with beautiful kids. I wanted to give my child so much more than I got. Well recently I found out I was pregnant an right away I told my self I was getting an abortion an I wasn’t going to let any one change my mind. I know I’m to young an wont be able to give my child as much as I want. After I left the clinic finding out I was pregnant I called an abortion clinic an made an appointment for the soonest day they could get me in. witch was in one week. A couple days after I made that appointment I was feeling really sick an short breath so I went into the emergency room were they took an ultrasound to see if they could see anything wrong. That’s when I started feeling like I was only thinking of abortion to make every one else around be satisfied.
The ultrasound lady then told me there was not just one in my belly there are two. after I found that out it made everything 10 times harder. I felt twice as bad. I just kept thinking to my self,” Wow God is giving me two babies… He’s trusting I can do this, how could I possibly not have them?” I felt special an different since most girls don’t get blessed with twins. I told my mom the next day that I can’t go through with the abortion (which she wanted me to get) & actually she was happy an told me after she found out there were two an saw those precious little things inside me she wanted me to keep them. It made me feel so good inside because all I wanted and needed was just one person to tell me to keep them, an I knew I would.. It was even better it came from my mother. Now the downside is the babies father isn’t very happy with the decision at all. Its really hard for me to deal with because I love him an want nothing more for him to be there apart of there life an be happy. But I just tell my self weather I have them or not he could leave.. An I would rather be with my little babies then ANYTHING! today is my first appointment for my abortion where I guess they talk to you an prepare you.. An I’m not going. I feel my relationship with my baby’s father is already over because if I went through with the abortion I would hate him for letting me an I know the stress of two baby’s would eventually break us apart. So I decide to keep them and the main reason was because I saw all your girls post and it opened my eyes and made me realize I could do this.
You know, you are really luck to be pregnant. Some women are eager to have one but they couldn't because of being impotent or they have a hard time to conceive. Feel blessed because God is giving you an opportunity to feel what your mother felt when she was carrying you and giving life to you. It's not those judgmental people around you who's important, it's your precious babies! And also, you're luckier because instead of one, God has given you twins which most women really dream of, including myself! (gosh I'm envious!) Just be strong, let your mom be a living proof that your child is the most important thing in this world. Be strong.
Good for you, girl! I'm happy you made the right decision for your babies, they will change your life dramatically, in a good, and positive way. I had an unplanned pregancny 24 yrs ago, and almost had an abortion, but through the grace of God, I changed my mind. My son is my hero because he changed my life for the better. I became responsible and mature for him. He's now in the Navy serving our country and is married. I look forward to him giving me grandchildren some day. In the meantime, I have never regretted keeping my baby 24 yrs ago, and you will neither. God Bless you and your twins!
So proud of you for realize that those are real people inside of you when you saw them on the sonogram. A friend of mine just started a new website collecting stories of people that had been aborted and then come back to a new Mom. The trauma of an abortion is so much that when the baby comes back to a new Mom there are so many emotional scares that was inflicted on them during an abortion. I was one of those babies that had been aborted so love to see some one make a good choice! Good luck!
Well done, you are a brave and courageous girl and you will be rewarded with two beautiful babies. There is no job in the world more rewarding than being a mother. You will not regret your decision. I admire you so much and thank God that there are strong women like you in this world, you are exactly what the world needs right now.
Good choice best one you probably will ever make.Though things may be rough at first ,just look up & thank the Lord again.I would gladly take twins anyday. Good luck, Please watch the movie October Baby. This story would be very fitting for you.
🙂 nice one. . .:-):)i like the story…God Bless
I want to speak from the point of view from someone who had a child at 18 years old and I graduated high school pregnant I worked at Mcdonalds and lived with my mother and then gave birth to this absolultey beautiful baby girl she is and has continued to be my whole world and I was not in a situation that most people would think was ideal but I have managed to build a great life for her and me and have been raising her alone since she was 4 months old I have also had an abortion that literally almost destroyed me it's something women never talk about because we are constantly judged on our choice to terminate our pregnany. I had got an abortion Nov 4th 2012 and then on Nov 24 th I had been seen in the emergency room where I was rushed into emergency surgery the scariest thing I ever experienced in my life come to find out they had performed and incomplete abortion and had to get the remainder of the baby out this after almost over dosing on perscription pain medicine because I was emotionally unstable from the pregnancy hormone running through my body the depression anger and loss I felt was unbearable. I was affraid I would never be able to have children and that in some way I was being punished and even a year and 2 months after my abortion I have had bladder urgency and frequency issues due to the stress and trauma the whole situation put on my pelvic floor muscles. I have made my choice like so many other women but knowing now what I know compared to before it was the biggest mistake of my life is it possible to have a child when your jobs not that good or your doing it alone yes it is and so many think it's selfish but it's not the funny thing about being a mother is you always find a way to provide the strength that your child gives you to succeed and do what you have to do is truly a miracle .Every women has the choice but from speaking from both sides who has done both I urge you to truly consider your decision not based on fear of failure but faith to succeed a child is a true gift and my daughter has changed me made me grow and opened my eyes to so much so dont worry about what your boyfriend thinks your mom dad or friends listen to your heart do what is right for you.
Sincerly ,
A young mother 🙂
God will never give you the thing that you will never handle. God had a purpose of giving you twins
god bless you.
🙂 That is such a fantastic story. I'm so proud of you for choosing to look after these precious lives inside of you. I pray everything goes so well. You are blessed. I always wanted twins!
your decision is right….. Nothing to worry!