I just wanna thank everyone for posting their stories. I am a young girl who always dreamed of being a parent but, of course when the time was right. I could always picture a perfect picture with beautiful kids. I wanted to give my child so much more than I got. Well recently I found out I was pregnant an right away I told my self I was getting an abortion an I wasn’t going to let any one change my mind. I know I’m to young an wont be able to give my child as much as I want. After I left the clinic finding out I was pregnant I called an abortion clinic an made an appointment for the soonest day they could get me in. witch was in one week. A couple days after I made that appointment I was feeling really sick an short breath so I went into the emergency room were they took an ultrasound to see if they could see anything wrong. That’s when I started feeling like I was only thinking of abortion to make every one else around be satisfied.
The ultrasound lady then told me there was not just one in my belly there are two. after I found that out it made everything 10 times harder. I felt twice as bad. I just kept thinking to my self,” Wow God is giving me two babies… He’s trusting I can do this, how could I possibly not have them?” I felt special an different since most girls don’t get blessed with twins. I told my mom the next day that I can’t go through with the abortion (which she wanted me to get) & actually she was happy an told me after she found out there were two an saw those precious little things inside me she wanted me to keep them. It made me feel so good inside because all I wanted and needed was just one person to tell me to keep them, an I knew I would.. It was even better it came from my mother. Now the downside is the babies father isn’t very happy with the decision at all. Its really hard for me to deal with because I love him an want nothing more for him to be there apart of there life an be happy. But I just tell my self weather I have them or not he could leave.. An I would rather be with my little babies then ANYTHING! today is my first appointment for my abortion where I guess they talk to you an prepare you.. An I’m not going. I feel my relationship with my baby’s father is already over because if I went through with the abortion I would hate him for letting me an I know the stress of two baby’s would eventually break us apart. So I decide to keep them and the main reason was because I saw all your girls post and it opened my eyes and made me realize I could do this.
You know, you are really luck to be pregnant. Some women are eager to have one but they couldn't because of being impotent or they have a hard time to conceive. Feel blessed because God is giving you an opportunity to feel what your mother felt when she was carrying you and giving life to you. It's not those judgmental people around you who's important, it's your precious babies! And also, you're luckier because instead of one, God has given you twins which most women really dream of, including myself! (gosh I'm envious!) Just be strong, let your mom be a living proof that your child is the most important thing in this world. Be strong.
Good for you, girl! I'm happy you made the right decision for your babies, they will change your life dramatically, in a good, and positive way. I had an unplanned pregancny 24 yrs ago, and almost had an abortion, but through the grace of God, I changed my mind. My son is my hero because he changed my life for the better. I became responsible and mature for him. He's now in the Navy serving our country and is married. I look forward to him giving me grandchildren some day. In the meantime, I have never regretted keeping my baby 24 yrs ago, and you will neither. God Bless you and your twins!
So proud of you for realize that those are real people inside of you when you saw them on the sonogram. A friend of mine just started a new website collecting stories of people that had been aborted and then come back to a new Mom. The trauma of an abortion is so much that when the baby comes back to a new Mom there are so many emotional scares that was inflicted on them during an abortion. I was one of those babies that had been aborted so love to see some one make a good choice! Good luck!
Well done, you are a brave and courageous girl and you will be rewarded with two beautiful babies. There is no job in the world more rewarding than being a mother. You will not regret your decision. I admire you so much and thank God that there are strong women like you in this world, you are exactly what the world needs right now.
Good choice best one you probably will ever make.Though things may be rough at first ,just look up & thank the Lord again.I would gladly take twins anyday. Good luck, Please watch the movie October Baby. This story would be very fitting for you.
🙂 nice one. . .:-):)i like the story…God Bless
I want to speak from the point of view from someone who had a child at 18 years old and I graduated high school pregnant I worked at Mcdonalds and lived with my mother and then gave birth to this absolultey beautiful baby girl she is and has continued to be my whole world and I was not in a situation that most people would think was ideal but I have managed to build a great life for her and me and have been raising her alone since she was 4 months old I have also had an abortion that literally almost destroyed me it's something women never talk about because we are constantly judged on our choice to terminate our pregnany. I had got an abortion Nov 4th 2012 and then on Nov 24 th I had been seen in the emergency room where I was rushed into emergency surgery the scariest thing I ever experienced in my life come to find out they had performed and incomplete abortion and had to get the remainder of the baby out this after almost over dosing on perscription pain medicine because I was emotionally unstable from the pregnancy hormone running through my body the depression anger and loss I felt was unbearable. I was affraid I would never be able to have children and that in some way I was being punished and even a year and 2 months after my abortion I have had bladder urgency and frequency issues due to the stress and trauma the whole situation put on my pelvic floor muscles. I have made my choice like so many other women but knowing now what I know compared to before it was the biggest mistake of my life is it possible to have a child when your jobs not that good or your doing it alone yes it is and so many think it's selfish but it's not the funny thing about being a mother is you always find a way to provide the strength that your child gives you to succeed and do what you have to do is truly a miracle .Every women has the choice but from speaking from both sides who has done both I urge you to truly consider your decision not based on fear of failure but faith to succeed a child is a true gift and my daughter has changed me made me grow and opened my eyes to so much so dont worry about what your boyfriend thinks your mom dad or friends listen to your heart do what is right for you.
Sincerly ,
A young mother 🙂
God will never give you the thing that you will never handle. God had a purpose of giving you twins
god bless you.
🙂 That is such a fantastic story. I'm so proud of you for choosing to look after these precious lives inside of you. I pray everything goes so well. You are blessed. I always wanted twins!
your decision is right….. Nothing to worry!
your decision is right… eventhough its hard but then that two babies has the right to see the beauty of the world~~!
May the God bless you and your babies. Nice story and thanks for sharing 🙂
your so blessed with your babies !! the only way that u can overcome in that situation is to PRAY ! just trust in the LORD !! just like JESUS he died on the cross just to save us . And one of those is your babies .. It is an angel will come to your precious LIFE , be strong always! and keep on PRAYING .. GOD will be with you always !! and he LOVES you so much !! .. 🙂 :)GODBLESS you also to your babies!!
You are right you can do this and it may not have been under the best circumstance but your babies are still a gift from God. Trust me living with knowing you had an abortion is much more painful than losing your babies father. You are brave and you made a bold decision and without knowing it you have already become a mum by just making that decision. Trust God that he will soften the babies father and he will remain apart of their lives and realize his mistake, if not God will help you raise them and He will be everything you need and more. He is perfect, He is a gentlemen and the greatest Father so who better to raise your kids than Him? Oneday you will look back and realize how God could take something that was bad and turn it into something good. I myself conceived my son at the age of 16 and went through the same emotions and thoughts of abortion as you did, just like you I couldnt go through with it and today my boy is 10 years old. He is my inspiration, my motivation and my success, without him I wouldnt be half the women, mother, friend, sister and daughter I am today :). After having him I completed school, went onto study and by the grace of God I own my own business,, so having him was not the end of my life but rather the beginning and so too are your babies :).
stay strong 🙂
:otwins r a blessing thank u for being courageous enough 2 post your story im almost 3 weeks along( found out early lol) and im scared i have 2 lil ones already 1 and 2 smh and i felt abortion is the only way but i dont want to. Thanks again for your story
🙂 i really like this and i have a lot of lessons i get from this story, i've picture my self in this situation, i dd also like this,tnx for sharing your story…………………….:)
hey I just wanted to say hello nd congrats to you I found out a couple of weeks ago that I too am having twins nd I'm scared out of mind mind !!!!! it would be nice if we could chat from time to time nd just tLK Mybe compare notes on these babies perhaps be of encouragement to each other hope to herar from you again congrats !!!
Takara
[b]i love how you decide! you truly have a great heart and you are smart! God bless you and yo ur babies! 😀 :D[/b]
I am so happy for you! That is wonderful you are pregnant with twins! 🙂 Good on you for keeping your babies and God Bless,
All the best for the future,
love MB
wow, this is america today! when one is in a difficult situation the only answer is abortion. What a pity to countless fetuses being murdered. So what can you expect the future of america whose christian values are now considered obsolete and replaced by relative values of secularism? This is what the public schools have sown in the minds of the informative years of the boys and girls learning abc's without including God in it. it's thumb up this preggie girl has allowed the twins to live and enjoy life.. .
as soon as i found out i was pregnant, i freaked out. i didn't tell anyone until a month or two passed. but i new from the moment i found out that i was not getting an abortion and adoption wasn't an option. i was 17 1/2 when i got pregnant, my mother wanted me to get rid of him… hes going to be two in december and looking at him now, i couldnt imagine life without him. these decisions are hard for most girls, because they have their whole lives ahead of them, just like i had mine. but you should always do what you think is best instead of thinking what everyone else would want. in the end, its your child and your body.
Wow… Two babies – What a blessing from God! Frankly saying, I envy you since I still don't have children at the age of thirty-three. YOU ARE TRULY BLESSED AND DON”T ALLOW ANYBODY TO TAKE THAT AWAY FROM YOU!
Hi, good on you. I hope everything goes well. Not just hope but pray. I came across this website researching for my drama project and I have to say every girl on here is amazing -though i personally dont believe in sex b4 marriage evryone here has made a hard choice despite their circumstances. Well done 🙂
Im a reliogious person and i think that God has givin you a very good chance with these babies and he says you deserve them so hold every moment close and remember that god gave them to you!! 🙂
I am not as young as you but I went through what you are going through and thought I shouldn't have my baby because everyone else would be unhappy. I argued with my other half for 2 months and then finally realising my pregnancy would give everyone else a headache I booked a abortion and went and had it at 12 weeks. This was last month and the biggest mistake of my life. Don't do what makes others happy because you never know if they will be around in a few days. I'm glad you realised this before undergoing the abortion and not after.
You made the right decision. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is a lot older than i am. I got pregnant 4 months ago and since we are getting married soon he wanted an abortion i set my appointment and everything but a week later i decided not to go threw with it. Right after i lost my baby and realized that i was planning on getting rid of it. I've never been so sad my whole life. I'm not religous but i know you can do it and you'll be a great mom
I'm 16 – 7 weeks pregnant and after reading your story I think I'm going to keep my baby, what you've said it's exactly how I feel about me and the father of my baby. Thank you so much
God will never give us troubles or challenges we cannot conquer, i trust and believe God gave you that baby knowing that your capable of being a good mother.. stay strong and don't let anything to bring you down!
Hi I'm in a similer situation although not pregnant with twins. I have a consultation this week for abortion but really am in two minds about what im doing I feel so messed up and confused.i have been with the father for two years but we have just broke up as it really wasnt working. Thing is I have two older children from previous relationships which I brought up on my own which everyone tells me how wonderful they are and what a fantastic job I've done. But really dont know if I want to do it again on my own even though I know I could. On other hand I really don't think I could go through with an abortion as it goes against everything I believe in. I feel so trapped. Any advice?
My dear sister, God bless you for what you are doing with your older two. Know that the same God who gave you strength for the 2 will give you strength for 3,you just have to trust God to help you through. The grace of God is available for you and that baby's life is precious. I pray you save the life of the precious baby, God bless you.
I ave already got a little girl who is 2i met a new boyfriend 7months ago an ave already had 1 abortion to him an here I am again pregnant to him again but this time I couldn't be able to go through another it is mental tourcher so I am chosen to keep this 1as things happen for a reason an he is very angry an all he keeps sayin is what do u want me to say to u ur mind is already made up an I am on the pill I need help plz someone speak to me x
Girls, please do not kill your babies. They will be there for you long after the father is gone. He is only pressuring you to murder the fruit of your womb because he does not want to be responsible. It is better to give your child up for adoption (Colin Kaepernick Jason Priestly to name a few) than to let it be thrown out in some doctor's garbage.