OK so I will start off by saying this is not my 1st time getting pregnant.
The 1st time I became pregnant, I let my dad and my mom and other people in my family think for and I did not do what my heart told me to do. When I first became pregnant, I was 15. But I had it aborted which was soo horrible!! I wish I would not have done it.
But now, I am pregnant again a year later and it was totally unplanned!!
I am so confused! I don’t want to abort it but I’m soo scared to tell my mom. I know she is going to go bizark!!
She told me she will kick me out!!!
Let me tell you my story and plz comment and give me your advice plz!!!
OK so I am 16 and will be turning 17 in February.
I became pregnant Sept. 27.
And it was not with my boyfriend I am soo in love with now.
It was with an old boyfriend that I was with for 6 months but we broke up. It just didn’t work.
So here, we are havin’ sex and not knowing it will change our life. And I did say without a condom. Yea, stupid huh?
But he was a virgin. And the awful part is I cheated on my 8 month boyfriend.
So when it was all said and done I became pregnant and had to tell my boyfriend everything.
Of course he was pissed off but he didn’t break up with me, thank God!!
He really loves me!! So when I told him I didn’t want an abortion cause it hurts me way too much, he wanted me too bcuz he said he wants my 1st child to be with him and not some other dude.
but I’m like I can’t do another abortion, not 2 in 2 years.
And ever since my 1st abortion, I’ve been stressed soo bad on top of losing my best friend since 6th grade and I’m now in the 11th and school and the stress of school and every thing.
So the baby’s father wants me to get and abortion too he says he didn’t want me to be his baby’s mother!!! How awful and mean!!!
I couldn’t believe he said dat then he said he didn’t mean it but it really hurt me…
See some males just don’t understand how it is and how awful it is to go through an abortion…
But to make long story short, here I am about 3 in a half weeks pregnant and I haven’t told my mom and I need some advice of weather I should follow my heart and not get a 2nd abortion or get the 2nd abortion??????????
Plz help!!!!!!!!!
