I don’t know how to help her!!
We meet on the phone through a friend. She was 15 and I was 23. We both lived in different states. I was in a Christian college and she was in a Christian school… We talked for 2 hours every night for 6 months, then she invited me to go and visit her for Thanksgiving Day. I went there with her mom’s permission… I stayed in her sister’s apartment. She came over to spend the night with her too and we ended up… you know. I was a virgin, but I couldn’t tell if she was… In those 6 months that we talked, she had some problems and I help her out. And became so much closer. We never planned to do anything is just happen…
Then I came back to college and I went for the summer to visit her. We did it again, but this time, she got pregnant… I was scared. She just told me and decided with her mom to abort the baby… I was so scared but I wanted the baby… I felt sad but at the same time, her pastor and my pastor knew I was there visiting her and they told me to come backĀ immediately or they would do something… I came…but we wanted to marry as soon as she got 18. I came home and we had a long distant relationship for 6 month. After that, she changed on me. It was different… I repented of all I did and wanted to marry her cuz I really love her and all we went through but now, I found out by letter that she was cheating anyway…
Now she is having a lot of problems. We don’t communicate anymore cuz it was forbidden for my pastor and her pastor but I know she is going for problems and she is living a married life if you know what I mean… She is only 16 now and really hard headed. She don’t understand but deep inside, she knows that the guys she’s dating now are just taking advantage … and she likes sex… I want something for preventing this because I know she’s still in time before is too late and get pregnant with some guy who don’t even care for her. I know that for sure. And we all know what’s the end of it…
I am praying for her but now, it seems she don’t want to listen to nobody… I don’t know how to help her… The only thing I know is soon she will get pregnant like her sisters… The last text she send me said that she would kill herself… because I told her that we had to stop communicating cuz she choose her path already with that other guy. d that life but I don’t know. I know she needs help. I can’t be there now I wish but I can’t. But I am really worried for her. I love her but I know she isĀ being just stubborn but I know she will realize with time about now but it will be late cuz probably, she will end up pregnant again or even worst and I want to avoid it.
If it can be possible, somebody can talk to her anonymously without mentioning my name… I am desperate…