on feb 23rd 2008 i went along with the procedure.  I had everyone telling me that it was the right thing to do that the father was a loser and would never be there and deep down inside i knew they were right.  After the procedure I hid the pain and emptiness well.  I never talked about it in front of anyone.  I just found out a few weeks ago I am 6 weeks pregnant.  The father and I are no longer together but we are still friends.  He has other children and he is not with their mothers either.  Well he wants me to have an abortion.  He doesnt want another child from a broken family.  It frustrates me when he says that because I told him just because we do not live together and are not in a relationship doesnt mean that we both cant be there for the baby.  I dont think he realizes the medical risks let alone the mental or emotional stress it causes.  I dont know how get him to understand how i feel..