I am 30-something, have an advanced degree, a great guy (not married but together for a long time), and recently got a new job which will start in 2 weeks.

4 days ago, I found out I was pregnant, which is something I have actually wanted for a long time, but not now…. I am on a roll-a-coaster ride at the moment, wanting to keep this baby and wanting to end the pregnancy.  Mostly because I do have this new job and because maternity benefits in this country suck. The guy said he will support me no matter what I decide to do, will even move with me if that is what I want.

I don’t know what I want and I really wish someone could tell me this is normal.