I need some advice

My heart goes out to you! Your situation is hard, but you can over come and be stronger for it. The new life growing inside of you is innocent and has nothing to do with the father or situation. Please give him or her a chance at living, dreaming and being happy as we all equally have. Will your family or friends support you in your pregnancy? If not, there are crisis pregnancy centers all over the country. The women there are very supportive and will help you with your decisions. In my opinion, you have two choices, to keep the baby and raise it, or give it up for adoption. I have personally known 4 couples that were unable to have children, and two of them had a difficult time of actually finding a child to adopt. THere are many people out there who would love a child. A crisis pregnancy center will help you with this. It is a hard decision, but to love your child enough to do so is very inspiring and noble. Otherwise, it is also hard to be a single parent, but the love your child gives you is like no other, and being a mother is a wonderful and amazing thing. Your life changes absolutely, but in a way you can never imagine. I hope this helps you. If you do decide to have an abortion, please do yourself a favor and go to abortionfacts.com before hand. You can get all the facts. And one last bit of advice about men. It is not your fault that he tricked you like he did, but he obviously did it to get one thing out of you, sex. As a valuable, unique and amazing woman, you need someone who sees you for more than just a sexual object. If you do not want a man to see you that way, do not give sex away until you have a strong committment from him, such as marriage. Be friends first, date second, and be clear to him about how you wish to be treated. Make him prove that he is good for you. If he doesn’t want to stay around for that, trust me, he is not worth it and you would never be happy. And most importantly, be happy with who and what you are on your own, a man will never make you happy if you are not happy with yourself. Overall, be courageous, take chances, choose wisely, and go forward with whatever you have to in life. I hope and pray that you will find the correct answer to all you need. Remember, one person is praying for you!

Hey!

I’m sorry to hear about your situation. I really hate it when guys don’t take care of their responsibilities. Even though you might not want to hear this, you can have your baby without him. Like the saying goes "you can do bad by yourself." You’re pregnant by a married man, which is stressful enough, so you don’t need the added stress of dealing with his crap. I hope that you have some family members or close friends that can help you with your pregnancy and raising your child. If you have any questions or you wanna talk just send me an e-mail. aprilnbeckley@yahoo.com. I’m pregnant too, so I can relate to that part. E-mail me, I would love to hear from you.

April

Hi! Well my name is Angie and I think that I may be pregnant but I,m not sure because right when he was getting ready to come his mom come knocking at the door,but I heard that you can still come out pregnant because of his pre-come.Also we are having problems and took a time out because he was having baby mama drama with his ex and she told him that if she found out that he was deeing me that he can’t see his boys.Please help me I don’t know what to do and I think that it’s to soon to find out if I’m pregnant because it’s been only 10 days and we had sex 5 days before my period.

Thanks,
Angie

im 14 yrs old and my period only lasted for three days. i haven’t taken a home test yet. should i take one. i had sex with my boyfriend but he didn’t ejaculate. can still i be pregnant?