Well I can honestly say when you give up trying is usually when you get pregnant. I know that my husband and I tried for 6 months to get pregnant with out first daughter. After six months of false hopes I gave up thinking the birthcontrol had cause me to where I would never be able to have another child. Now I had been on birth control for about 3 years then was off bith control for 2 years when we started trying to get pregnant. Well when i gave up all hope of ever having a child with my now husband is when i got pregnant. I had to give up all hope even in my heart. It is hard to let go of the fact of not being able to have a child but try it. I convinced myself that my husband and I would never have children together, that we would just raise the daughter I had from a previous relationship. You know it can’t hurt anything to try.