Hey there,
I am so sorry to hear about your situation right now. I just want you to know that you will be able to get through this.
Unfortunately, what this guy did to you was really, really wrong. Rape is never ok–even if you had too much to drink. I man never has the right to talk advantage of anyone, even if they were drinking. Many women feel that rape was their fault or that they brought this on themselves. I just want you to know that you didn’t do anything wrong. And what happened was not your fault and you are not responsible for it.
I would like to encourage you to file a police report about this–even if you are not exactly sure what happened. I know that what I am saying is very difficult, but this man needs to be stopped. If he is willing to rape you, his friend, he is willing to rape other women. He should not get away scott free for what he did. It’s not too late to take this to the police! Be brave!
Self identifying pregnancy symptoms is not a very effective way to know whether or not you’re pregnant. I suggest that you take a pregnancy test. Pregnancy tests are generally accurate about 7 to 10 days after sex.
Keep in touch. We’re here to help and talk you though what ever happens. We care about you!